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Have you ever dated a guy at least a foot taller than you and well endowed not to mention dominant? I mean like you have to tip toes while he bends to kiss. When you're out he would whisper the filthiest things in your ear to make you blush or put his hand up your dress under the table.

When you have sex he always wants to be in control, he'd pin you down, pull your hair, ravage your neck, breast and the rest of your body like a wild animal. Wants to eat you out all day, everyday. Never wants to let you be on top. Picks you up and make love to you against the wall, on the table, hold you while 69ing while standing up without getting tired. Performing oral on you while he's standing and your legs wrapped around his neck/head while he's holding your ass.

He insists on paying for everything even tho you would like to pay. Buys you gifts, treats you like a princess but fu*ks you like a slut behind closed doors or make love to you gently and passionately. He's serious most of the time and barely laughs. He comes off as a gentleman and very charming to strangers.

Downside: He's extremely jealous, wants to go through your phone, insists on driving you everywhere you need to go, goes to doctors appointments with you whether you want him to come or not. Will pay for your schooling but doesn't want you to work. Can't stand that you have guy friends, times how long you go out for, asks you a million and one questions when you get back and gets really pissed when he can't reach you. Puts hickeys all over your neck and chest so people will know who you 'belong' to and if you don't want him to he gets pissed. Ugh...

Does the pros outweigh the cons? Are these red flags for controlling behavior? Would you stay if he says he will change but still does the same things?

please dont take this question the wrong way, i dont know how to phrase it. These guys all like me and i kinda like all of them. I dont know what to do and i dont want to hurt anyone. :(
Guy 1- been my best guy friend for ages, he's so sweet, kind, funny, and we're really close. He's matured a lot in the last few months and i have to admit i really like him. He's always liked me and we've always had a conncetion bu tignored it because we were "just friends". He's made a few grand romantic gestures but it can't so anywhere because one of my close friends likes him.
Guy 2- Is probably the most attractive guy in my school, and i am attracted to him but i dont "like" him and dont know how to let him down gently. He's so lovely, fit, smart, nice and funny, and he drew me this beautiful rose and told his friend he likes me. I feel really special and lucky buy dont feel the same.
Guy 3- Met at a festival a year ago and is literally perfect- we get on so well. We went on a few dates and i really really liked him but we drifted apart. After a few months we're talking again. He's so perfect he ticks every box. He's smart, witty, funny, sweet, charming, honest, supportive, loyal, everything. He plays drums and sports, is about to get his lisence, really healthy. Its hard to develop a further connection over text so i think we need to go on another date. Sometimes i dont feel like talking to him very much.
Guy 4- the most confusing, frustrating guy ever. I have liked him for about a year anf a half. No one understands our connection but its undeniable. Last year i liked him sooo much but nothing happened because we never talekd about our feelings (he's so confusing), but he liked me a lot. This year we're close friends and i can't escape my feelings for him, i can't get over him. He likes me too i think, he does the sweetest things and he's really protective and gets jealous. I can just tell, but i dont want to play cat and mouse with him.
I hate this word but who should i "Pick"?

Is it worth it to try to stay friends with someone after you have feelings that aren't returned? My guy friend seems to think it's funny to tease me about liking him and says stuff like how strong his "chick magnet" is. I just think he's a dick. He says this is how things are after a crush fails. I've never tried to be friends with anyone I've liked who didn't want to date me, so I don't know. He claims we are friends but a real friend would kinda feel bad for me and not try to make me feel worse. I've been on the other side of this and I always just tried to let the guy down firmly but gently. I would never mock anyone for liking me.