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I’ll keep it as short as possible

I started speaking to a man I initially matched on tinder but he sparked up conversation on Instagram. We spoke everyday for three weeks and I instantly knew I liked him but hadn’t met him in person yet.

I had a Christmas party with work 3 weeks after first speaking, and a random guy grabbed and kissed me on the dance floor. Again, we were speaking everyday, but hadn’t actually met each other in person at this point. we met exactly a week after that night I can’t stop stressing over.

At the time I didn’t think much of it, but it’s been five months now of regularly seeing each other and we are now exclusive but not official, but now I feel unbelievably guilty that happened? It’s playing on my mind I cried a lot this week cuz we were speaking so much already back then.

He’s a lovely guy, I have so much respect and time for him and I feel guilty for not telling him, I almost feel like a fraud by not mentioning it and like I am being a terrible person by not saying? He’s super sweet and thoughtful and makes plans constantly and I feel I don’t deserve him now 😔

Do I tell him, or is it nothing to worry about? My friends say I did nothing wrong (I didn’t even go in for the kiss a guy grabbed me) but I have OCD and I’m obsessing and worrying. I’m falling hard for him I’m scared he’d think less of me and I can’t relax 😞