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When we started dating, he was giving me money every month... like 500, 600, 700 euros. Taking me on trips and shopping. Even though I work. Now he gave me his card. I don't plan to use it. I told him it's stupid and makes me feel uncomfortable. He is planning a vacation for my birthday. It will also be one year since we started dating.

But he quit on the idea of buying a new car. He sold his old one and he told me he has to get used to public transportation cause it's cheap. He also sold a building and is starting to build a new one next year. Is he just investing all of his resources in that project or is he actually a bit poor? He only has one apartment and he is basically taking care of his parents. They have their own apartment and house but their income is very small. His bro doesn't have his own place, he lives at his girlfriend's now. I didn't know these things before. Is he telling me now cause I cost him too much?

There's this guy that I met a while ago while I was shopping at the store he works at. He recommended this class to me, I went because I was interested in the class-not him (he ran it). He wouldn't accept my cash for the class, I never went back bc I got busy. It was a nice gesture.

Each time I went into the store I would keep my head down in case he was working. My brain gets mushy when I'm talking to someone attractive haha, and I assumed he was just being a nice person to me-so I didn't him to sense that I was attracted to him, I lose my cool haha.

He finds me every time haha, it's kind of embarrassing at this point for me since I'm not the one striking convo. But he is working though.

Most recent time I went in, kept my head down again lol, but he found me again! He asked what I was up to, and said I looked nice. He went back to work, found me again shortly, gave me a free coupon for the class he teaches. Let me remind you that I only went that first time, and about 7 months have passed.

I thanked him and said I would definitely take use of it. After that I again assumed he was just being a nice person to me. But later that day he liked an old Insta selfie. He's been commenting on my recent pics, nice things, not creepy.

So I'm pretty sure he is interested in me haha. It's all I've been able to think about.

The thing is... he's a bit older than me. It's ok with me since I usually date older men anyways. I'm 20 years old, I don't know his age but I'm guessing he's at least 30.

I can tell he's a gentleman. He has a nice demeanor, I don't feel intimidated by him. Sometimes men can come across a little persistant, but he's giving me that space I like... takes a while for me to warm up to people.

What if he thinks I'm older than I am? If so will he be disappointed? Maybe he senses my youth? Should I ask him how old he is (so he can ask me the same) before I ask him out?

Any advice is welcomed I know I asked a ton of questions haha, just need help with this.