Boys come and go, but then, there will be that one man who will prove us wrong, and will stick around for the long haul. We can always fall, and catch feelings anytime, anywhere. Wish nothing but to hope they're the one. But we often get disappointed, don't we? That's okay. We need to pass by the rough road to end with the best place. We gotta let go the good ones and wait not for a better one, but for the best one..to meet someone who will finally make us break down our walls we built up so high. Wait, no. Let me change that. To finally be with someone not to let us break down our walls, but be with someone who will climb them.
So how do you know if you're already with the one? How do you know if you had the one, but he got away? Or that maybe he's still out there, being with the wrong one?
How do we know if it's love? Not just lust, not loneliness, not boredom, not just a crush?
You like because. You love despite..
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Here are 17 certain signs to know he's the one worth spending every second of your life with:
1. He proudly introduces you to the important people in his life.
Because you're everything he wished for, and he wants nothing but to show you off to the world.
2. His respect for you never fades.
Chivalry isn't dead, you just need to find the right man to prove it to you. He shows his respect for you through big and little things. E.g., not forgetting on bringing you to real dates every now and then, opening doors for you, not doing things that would hurt you, his loyalty.
3. You two have survived long distance.
This is where the both of you can prove how strong your bond is, and the time to prove your loyalty and faithfulness. That your love has no limits. That it can't easily be broken by distance, and time. In fact, this would strengthen your relationship even more. This proves how much sacrifice you two are willing to do for each other in order to end up being together.
4. He doesn't control you, and won't try to change you.
Controlling your significant other proves either your lack of trust to her, or your insecurity, or maybe both. Which is a red flag. If he trusts you enough to let you go have a girl's night, or have friends of opposite gender, then it's your job to prove to him he's doing the right thing by trusting you. YOUR actions will show how much respect you have in your relationship. Controlling is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
And of course, he loves you the way you are. Cliche huh? But true. He won't tell you to not eat too much or you'll get fat, or tell you to not wear this and that, and he won't tell you who to or to not be friends with, because your friends tell a lot of what kind of person you are. If he can't accept that, he's not accepting you fully.
5. He's your biggest fan.
He loves taking pictures of you. He posts you on social media because he knows you're the most beautiful woman in this world, and he know you're worth bragging about.
And in the morning, seeing you with no makeup, your hair undone, and wearing his big sweater with your pajamas..he'll think nothing but "how can you be so beautiful in this time of the day?".
6. He's your best friend.
He's basically like your girl friends, but better. You can vent to him all you want, you can tell him everything (literally), he's your go-to person in everything, you do everything together.
7. You're confident talking and planning a future together.
Because you're aware nothing can ever break the special bond you two share, and that it's strong enough to build a future together.
You two are in the same road, in the same page. The same goals.
8. He loves spending time with you and your family, he cares about your friends.
Because he knows how much they mean to you..
9. He's a good listener.
You can vent on him as much as you want, and you know he's never going to get tired of listening. He wants to know how your day went, he wants to know your childhood stories, your family histories.
He wants to know what's on your mind..
10. Your emotions affect his.
He's happy about your successes and achievements. He's feeling down when you are, and will do anything to cheer you up.
11. He never fails to make you smile.
He's the one who makes you roll your eyes and smile right after..
He knows all your quirks. He knows exactly what to say and do to make you feel better.
12. You're his priority.
He never bails the last minute because you know how excited you are for that plan you two made.
He makes time for you. No one is ever too busy if you're important to that person..
13. He feels like home.
This is hard to explain, because you just feel it. And when you do, you'll know.
14. Simple/boring activities are fun when done with him.
Because you two love spending time with each other, and you two value every second you're together.
You're just never bored when with them. E.g., grocery shopping, movies, driving, road trips, cooking, etc,.
15. You fully trust him.
You don't feel the need to control him, too. Because you know how much he values your trust, and how much he respects you and your relationship.
16. He values your opinion.
You two are open to each other. You both know open communication is the key.
Your opinions matter to him..
17. He never fails to cheer you up.
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Of course, these signs go to men too.
As long as you two are true and comfortable with each other's skin, that's a special bond no one can easily break.
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