How you know He is"The One"and, is He Worth it All
How do you know he's the one? What are ways to tell that this guy is The One and not just anouther someone? There are several ways of telling actually, some of which I'm newly to understand myself but seem to be true.
People tend to double question themselves when it comes to choosing a mate. But, at some point of the relationship we all find ourselves asking " Is he The One?" Here are a couple ways that might help you be able to answer that very hard question.
1. You feel Calm, at Peace, and Genuinely Happy?
When you’ve found The One, the relationship just flows. You understand each other’s viewpoints and perceptions, and either accept them or feel the same way. If a relationship is characterized by conflict, strife or butting heads on a regular basis, that likely tells you the compatibility is not there.
A huge indicator that you’ve found The One, It’s just easy being with this person. Do you feel calm, at peace, and genuinely happy? That is a great indicator.
2. Your Brain Changes
A sure-fire indicator of a relationship being the real deal is that you don’t experience that ‘out of sight, out of mind’ phenomenon when your partner isn’t around. Instead, you’ll tend to think about them a lot almost all the time, in fact. To the point it's annoying almost. Love and genuine attachment actually alter the biochemical reactions taking place in your brain chemicals.When you think about The One, you’ll get a surge of happiness boosting neurotransmitter dopamine plus a lighting up of the brain’s reward centers. Amazing....
3. Your Pronouns Change
Those who feel deeply connected to their partner are more likely to use plural pronouns such as ‘we’ and ‘us’ or ' our'. Rather than the singular versions ‘I’ or ‘me’.
4. You Happily Sacrifice
If you’ve met The One, you’ll both be cool with making certain sacrifices for each other, even if historically, you’ve always been more about looking out for yourself as number one. If he is the guy for you doing whatever is needed to be with him is fine. Maybe even to the point of moving to a new city or country for them.
Psychologists call this ‘costly commitment signals’ when we carry out acts or behave in ways that are likely to ‘cost’ us either in terms of our time, money or our emotions, simply because we want to help our significant other.
5. We will Fight for it
The course of true love to be an often rocky road to say the least a willingness to fight for the success of your relationship is what really sets The One apart. Even more so than how compatible two people might be on paper.
A successful relationship does not hinge its posterity on how alike you both are, instead it hangs on by the sheer will power and want to stay in a relationship. You would leave everything behind for it.
6. You do Not want to Share Him
If someone is over sharing about their partner it could be a sign of insecurity. Unfortunately, social media is now an essential part of our daily lives, to the point where every moment needs to be documented and recorded. Happy couples who take their relationship seriously, however, tend not to share much information about their relationship online. They keep it to themselves they are happy without advertising it to the world.
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