How to know if he's the one?

[Anonymous]

So I just started dating and it's all fresh and new to me I am 25 and he is 26 and has dated before me which was a long toxic kinda realtionship with him.

So everything is good he is nice and kind and respects me kinda appears charming. despite all these things which look good on the outside right. how can someone tell if they are the one? And how can you tell if they love you or like you enough? and just don't find you convenient?

He has got a lot female friends to which he interacts , chats etc?

They say you know it if he's the one or there are signs which tell he is not maybe your body trying to tell or something? I am too naive can someone tell me how to tell? cuz I am just confused?

[RHK36]

You'll know because you don't need to ask. You'll trust and feel that he's the one you give your all. A lot of times women choose wrong because they ignore the red flags during the dating. If you don't feel butterflies at any moment with him then you aren't in love.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty simple. You give him an OPPORTUNITY to show you that he chooses you above those other girls (some guys need more than one opportunity so you may need to do it a few times). But ALWAYS respect yourself while doing it. You're a CHOICE not an OPTION. And he will CHOOSE you if he's the right guy. Don't force it no matter how much you may want to. That's how most girls fail. Just provide him the OPPORTUNITIES to choose you.

[Anonymous]

He wouldn’t be interacting with all those Girls. And would never do anything even in pvt that might hurt u

[HighValue]

Until you live with someone, you will never REALLY know how they are.

[In_Trance]

Let me guess you've been dating him less than a month

[Asker]

1 year 11 months :(

[Staximus]

Your body has nothing to do with knowing if he's "the one" unless the only thing that matters to you is sex

[genericname85]

there's not "the one". there's options. just pick one that seems good.

[dudeinohio]

Female friends. Red flag.

[Asker]

Really? So it's not healthy?

[dudeinohio]

Not at all