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Okay, so I'm 16, and as thirsty as this question sounds, it's not like that. I'm honestly just wondering why I can't get a guy, or keep guys out of the friend zone. I am not shallow when it comes to physical characteristics, I just want someone funny, smart, chill, and out going. But I am either the girl that guys come to when life gets weird, they need a favor, or they're single. If it's not one of those then it's to beg for nudes, and try to make passes at me like I'm hooker Hannah from the corner. And when I won't be sexual they get mad, and I just so happen to have a temper, which usually causes me to yell and swear at them. Which leaves me looking like a bitch, and oh they aren't afraid to let all their friends know I'm a "CRAZY BITCH." Or I have the guys who I can't help but friendzone because I'm not ready for their level of commitment, and then there's the guys (the ones I grew up with) who apparently don't care how much puberty I go through won't stop seeing me as the little girl who played football with them, and went around beating up boys. So I don't get it, I'm pretty chill, and loyal, and I'm always there for my friends, and I don't think I'm ugly I just don't know.

I am the older sister of a younger brother and my little brother has always been the quiet introverted kid that everyone loves once you get to know but lately I have noticed slight signs of depression that are sparking my concern. My brother Doesn't seem to be getting much sleep he's getting tired during the day, he's taking unusual naps that hasn't occurred since he was probably a toddler. He expressed to us that he has not been able to sleep lately and he's waking up sometimes as early as four in the morning. He has always been really into video games but lately that seems to be his outlet like he hates conversing with the family at any cost. Like seriously he could play video games for like 24 hours straight he only stops to get food or when my mom forces him to. He used to be active and actually really good at sports and also very skinny lately he's been running out of breath just throwing a football in the front yard with my stepdad for 15 minutes which like I said doesn't happen very often of course. Not to be rude I'm just concerned I have also seen noticeable weight gain which you might be thinking "yea of course he does nothing" but my brothers metabolism has always been faster than the rest of our families. He has no motivation to do anything. In the past he has also told me something that I never thought much of until now and that is that his dad doesn't "get him" he's not close with his dad at all ( my brother and I have different dads) I wonder if he's not only feeling like that about his dad but what If now he's feeling like that about everyone. Like I said he won't let me talk to him much so I wouldn't know and if I asked I don't know what reaction I'd get. Another thing I've noticed Is that he is terrified of puberty and he hates talking about girls or anything to do with females he has never showed attraction to a female and is terrified of the topic. He is so scared it brings him to tears. which is unusual for a boy his age. What should i do?