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I've been working full time for a long time and have a good savings account. Since being with my boyfriend for four years I've spent at least $5000 on things he wants like for example: on his 25th birthday I bought him a PS4 and gave him $800 spending money for himself. Ok that's my present because I love him.
But now i see he has a spending problem (alright maybe it's my fault) all he does is drink alcohol 24/7 it's like... Relax

He keeps asking me for more money to buy him a new cupboard but I refuse to give it to him unless he learns the value of the dollar. He says I'm too harsh.

He doesn't work or drive and mooches off me and his other family members. His grandmother even said to me stop giving yur bf money he doesn't deserve it

How can I fix this? Or should I leave him because he's a selfish lazy alcoholic?

Before you say "sex" or any other "fun" ideas we are both very mature. We live with parents and we dont always have time alone for that, and we can not get a hotel room.
So Im already doing cute handmade stuff. But its the buying part Im stuck on.
he's 19. And weve been dating three months, but we are taking things very seriously and plan on staying together for a long time.
he's in his second year of medical school. Likes playing guitar, and owns probably 60 albums (CDs), as every man he loves his food. he's hilarious and likes anti jokes.
He tells me he doesn't want anything... But i can't get him nothing. He ordered my present online and says is getting me a few other little things. he's not into any sports but hockey, but already has everything he needs for that.
He has a nice watch.
If you could post your responds and also vote for a poll explaining why that would be perfecf!! Thank you in advance everyone!