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so here is the story I went to a new years party with a friend of mine his girlfriend was their and me and him mostly just played beer pong. I met a girl their and never got her number or anything I just thought she was cool. well a couple of days later she added me on Facebook, at first I thought okay she just recognized me and added me. well their was no mutual friends and I never gave her my last name so that means she was looking me out. but we started talking on Facebook over a few days. then we went on a date she ended up spending the night at my house. well a few days later we have another date and she decides to inform me that their is another guy in the situation someone she has "made sure knows that they aren't anything" and that I am "something new"... not sure how I feel about it. I really like what I have seen from this woman so far. not sure if I should try and compete or just drop the situation and walk away. well I'm twenty almost twenty one and she is 25. just not sure where I should head from here as far as pursue her or not. I do feel weird in the fact that she is seeing someone in addition to seeing me. so what in your opinion is the best course of action?

i don't like competitive people cause it seems like they're not happy if they're not the best.

competitiveness seems to come out of insecurity from where I see it.

and I hate when I catch myself being too competitive.

but I do have fun with my friends when we compete with each other for fun.

and I would like a girl that wants to kick my ass at COD, that would be hot.

I was talking with one of my best (guy) friends about this, that inspired me to ask this question.

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Do you girls compete at the bar with each other (friends or female strangers) to see who can get the most drinks as some sort of "beauty challenge"?

I believe this does happen sometimes, cauz I've seen it. But...I wanted to ask you for your opinion.

Please vote and elaborate about why you chose the way you did. Guys can vote on what he thinks girls do the most often

Use personal examples if you so choose.

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Thanks for answering. :)