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lately she has been going through a rough time with an ex who is acting out, she has gotten slightly distant with me. I asked her if she still wants to make things work with us and she tells me she does to date but also has some other issues to work out with herself. As to not make things worse I sent her a text telling her that I think it is best if I give her space so that she can figure her own things out but when she has we can hangout. Would you appreciate if your crush did this

Just as a side note, I have tried to be supportive but I don't think that it is helping.

she's an ex now but she was madly in love with me was just shy and kind of immature at the time. No way she was focused on anyone else. But at the time she was acting distant and I guess I was to. She told me about a guy hitting on her at work. She had a work party that she invited me to. The day of she said you don't have to go like three times.. I insisted and went. I was about to leave I called her no answer.. another call 30m later no answer.. I immediately assumed thw worst and prepared myself.. then i boticed this guy at her work was her bestfriend on an app called snapchat.. where you send pixtures back and fourth. Its notorious for sexting but can be used innocently too. I've been cheated on before when I was in the military. It's not a matter of me not being good enough it's a matter of I can't be there to satisfy her emotionally because we could only see each other twice a month.

I got there with a friend because I knew if I saw somwthing I would lose it and I'm not trying to get arrested. I pulled her aside asked her she showed me the her recent calls she got nothing.. she just sent me a message through snapchat like 10 minutes before that saying come already I'm bored. I didn't get it didn't have wifi or data at the time. She got offended but assured me that night I would never betray her. Till this day I don't know if she was testing to see if I even cared about her. Little head games. Could of deleted those calls. But was this irrational for me responding like this? I just got in the heat of the moment of me being cheated on in the past and I even explained all this to her.