Search Results: first date activities

Woman 1: From Southeast Asia, 23 years old, comes from a family of farmers. Is very street smart, is working on her English, seems to have a good, tranquil personality and is overweight. I don't speak her native language. Has not mentioned anything about wanting to get married and doesn't appear to have any desire to leave her country. Seems very mature and independent, likes to travel, at least within her country.

Woman 2: From the same Southeast Asian country as Woman 1, 35 years old, is in a big hurry to get married, is also very street smart, speaks excellent English and some French. Hinted she wanted to marry someone on an expat contract in her country, i. e., someone making a very good salary. Works in the same city as Woman 1, although they come from different cities far from each other. Normal body weight. Has been to other countries for work. Very business-oriented. Seems to have a tranquil personality.

Woman 3: Lives in North America. Is a teacher and is overweight. 35 years old, and is also in a very big hurry to get married. Seems to have a calm, somewhat relaxed personality. Has never been outside of her country. Is not very active physically, likes watching TV, writing poetry, and making artwork. No cultural barriers exist with her.

Woman 4: Lives in the same city I do and met her recently. Is 26 and a doctoral student. Is somewhat overweight, but appears to have a somewhat reserved personality. Doesn't seem to have any interest in outdoor physical activities. Is the only one of the four I've actually met in person (I met her in 3D, not online like the others). No cultural barriers exist with her.

I've been talking to the first three women for two months already, and I can tell that they are getting impatient wanting me to visit, so I need to figure out who to visit, if anyone.

What do you think? Which one should I focus on? None have kids.

Imagine first date was in a cafe, do you think it's a good idea to invite the other person to a physical activity like squash / tennis, assuming the other person never played? Assume also there might be other non-physical activities afterwards.

Background:
Been on a second date where we went to play squash but half way through leisure play it was noticeable the girl was getting tired, she also put on nice make and perfume knowing we'll play, so feeling kind of bad for her.