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My cousin and her husband have been married since 7 years (she is 35, and he is 34).

At first, I and her husband got to know each other, we texted often. Everything was well, but after a while he started acting very flirty towards me in the texts, telling me that he loves me, and I am like his little girlfriend, telling me 'Good night, lots of hugs and kisses'...

Wanting to go on a trip with only me and all that.
I would protest, 'Why do you keep flirting with me?' He would say 'I am not, it is just my deep feelings for you'.
He calls me 'Sweetheart' and 'Dear'. I told about all this to my two other cousins long ago, but didn't have courage to tell this to his wife.

Recently, he texted me again, 'Love you sweetheart, missing you'.

So, I confronted him, I told him I'll tell all this to his wife and tell her to flirt with other men!

He said he wasn't flirting with me. 'Anyone can say 'Love you' to whomever they have strong emotional bond with. It is just my pure affection for you, dear. I don't say it as if you are my girlfriend, don't take it so narrowly, take it broadly, I love very few people.'


He also told me to tell his wife he said all this to me.

Is it just affection or flirting?

Most married men won’t tell me their married. Usually I can tell if they’re just being nice, harmlessly flirting or trying to start something. Though this guy I don't know what he wants because he’s seems like a nice guy but hasn’t mentioned he married. He ask about my life and tells me about his but not everything. He checks me out and is always over the top happy to see me. Though after great conversations I won’t see for weeks on end. It’s been 5 weeks since I last seen him. He doesn’t know that I found out he’s married. He seems like a nice guy and we have very similar personalities and I wouldn’t mind being friends with him. Though it’s hard to be friends if I don’t see him that much. What should I do?