A female work colleague blocked me on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

Long story short I’m secretly having an affair with a married man who is a radiologist I work with. I’m single and he is married. She used to flirt with him before I started work and she checked cctv cameras and noticed I stayed back the day he worked. She seems like she is so bothered but why would she block me? There is no evidence of us together but yeah Please don’t judge me I’m just curious as to why she is so fake with me and then blocks me? She used to think he was attractive

[Anonymous]

Girl, this is a mess that you should get out of it before you lose your job and self worth. Not only are you messing around with a coworker but a married coworker is much worse.
Your coworker doesn’t have to like you but she does have to get along with you at work so I wouldn’t call that fake.
I never added anyone from my work to my social media no matter how well we got along.
It seems like you’ve become very paranoid of being found out which means you should probably stop now. Don’t ruin your career over some fling

[Asker]

Thank you for your reply.
I appreciate it.

I know You’re right and it’s hard because I’m 26 and he’s older and married and i didn’t mean for anything to happen but things escalated and it’s been around 6 months and she just got back from maternity leave and have noticed our friendship together.

The thing is does she have evidence? Is that why she blocked me or is it because she has an idea and is jealous? She is married and she used to flirt and she is this type of person who loves attention.

I am paranoid but I have a feeling if she would go to great lengths to try and get me fired?

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t be surprised if she does try to get you fired. It may not have anything to do with being jealous or liking him. People in general frown upon affairs and relationships in the work place. Quit while you’re ahead and save your own ass. There’s a high chance he’s going to be looking out for himself and toss you out in a blink. He has a lot to lose and men don’t usually suffer as much from these indiscretions as woman, fair or not. Get out

[Asker]

Ok so can I ask you why did she block me if she doesn’t have any evidence? What kind of stuff will she do to try and get me fired? The guy has been really good towards me at work even after I told him she has an idea and he had my back and is trying to get her into trouble because she has been rude to him ever since. She is being passive towards him a little but he’s a doctor who is prettt powerful in the company

[Opinion Owner]

So what? You will be let go, not him in this scenario then. Stop having the affair. Stop wondering why she blocked you. She could’ve done it because she hunks you’re a bad person

[Asker]

Ok yeah you’re right. If there isn’t any evidence though she can’t go to HR because I’ve googled situations like these and companies rather not deal with this stuff unless there is hardcore evidence? Sorry and thank you for your replies!

[scotcheggs]

ok i see a lot of people bashing you for the affair situation which isn’t wrong but i’ll just answer the question instead, she probably did notice and considering the whole office probably knows or whatever, there’s no point in wasting ur time wondering. if it’s bothering u this much to post a question about it, just ask her

[scotcheggs]

also, facebook’s dead af lmfao, who gives a shit

[spartan55]

Hahaha really? You are fucking a married guy at work and you are sweating getting blocked on Facebook by some girl you work with? Yeah that's definitely the bigger problem... why would this even matter to you? You are fucking Dr. Adultery, not her... so... point to the scoreboard and then enjoy your sleazy affair while it lasts. And don't be dumb, everyone already knows you are fucking him.

[Asker]

Ok so can I ask why would she block me? She doesn’t have any evidence? I don’t care that much she blocked me but to block someone is like they either know or have an idea?

[spartan55]

Lmao, yeah it's obvious you don't care at all... nice try. Again, why do you care? And again, everyone knows already... believe it.

[Asker]

I have a feeling you’re right and everyone knows however people I work with just mind there own business because it doesn’t affect the work dynamic. This girl (who used to flirt and love getting attention of him) has looked at cctv footage because yes I was staying back the days he would work. That’s the only evidence.

[spartan55]

So what are you going to do? Hire a hitman so she can't talk? Enjoy the shitstorm that's comin. You reap what you sow.

[Evil_Chuck]

You will understand if I am reluctant to believe a word of this story. It sounds like something you watched on a soap opera and then posted here for attention. How are perfect strangers supposed to understand what is going through the mind of this alleged colleague?

[AllieOops]

Seriously, aren't there enough single men you could screw instead of trying to steal some other girl's husband? What kind of morals did your mamma teach you anyway?

[Iron_Man]

Bad move thou shall not commit
Adultery pent your sins today

[Asker]

Yeah I understand that but why would she block me? I haven’t done anything to her and she has no evidence of me and him together together. Does it bother her that much that the attention is on me? She’s married and she used to flirt with him before I started.