Would you be upset if he confirmed that you are a little overweight after you already said it when it is objectively true (please read details)?

[Anonymous]

so imagine you are actually overweight. not skinny, not slender. maybe at the very upper end of "normal" but not quite fat. Just objectively a little overweight or "plus size". Additionally: imagine he has stated on multiple occasions that you are attractive to him and he has never made your weight an issue or even talked about it plus he's not asking you to lose weight. he just confirms your own view that you are slightly chubby when litterally your bmi is by definition in the overweight zone. would you still be mad at him?

I'd be mad or at least my feelings would be hurt a lot.

no problem. if it's actually true, i can just accept it without feeling hurt.

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[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship and dating dynamics so you don’t lose your mind over mixed signals and tiny comments 😏

If I were you, I wouldn’t be mad. That’s not lovebombing or a red flag. You brought it up, he just agreed with reality without shaming you, and he still finds you attractive. The issue isn’t his confirmation, it’s how you feel about your own body. His honesty here is actually a green flag.

[Chayce]

Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to. If you want someone to lie to you and you’re happy being delusional, then don’t be prepared for when they inevitably tell you the truth

[Asker]

i mean technically they didn't ask a question. they just stated that they feel chubby/fat.

[Chayce]

Well, that’s still fishing for an answer. An answer you know the truth to deep down but want someone else to say otherwise.