Search Results: friendship songs

Could this be beyond a friendship?

We've been really good friends for over 3yrs now & we always crack jokes on each other (most of them racists jokes because I'm black &he' Asian lol). Problem is I really can't take him seriously& I don't know if he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We've been really good friends for over 3yrs now & we always crack jokes on each other (most of them racists jokes because I'm black &he' Asian lol). Problem is I really can't take him

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Family & Friends

He keeps playing ignore games with me. At what point should I just forget this friendship?

It's so silly. But every time he initiates contact with me, it makes me feel like we are finally going to talk like we used to. Everyone suggested ignore him back. So I did. Then I gave him a call, instead of a text. He...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What does it really mean when a girl calls you "bestfiend"?

It is just a code that says "I want to snuggle with you, flirt with you, be my pretend boyfriend, without being responsible for sudden disappearance" This was done several times, I meet a girl, we'll become close, she'll...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is he sending me a secret message through this song he sent?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jWVSXHwoeug It's the song Chocolate by 1975. I asked him to send a song to me, and he never sends a song that doesn't have him sending a secret message... but I can't tell what he's...

LittleLaceyLove

Xper 6 Age: 32

Flirting

Why do guys always talk about common interests?

Ok, so I'm aware that not all guys do this, or maybw its just me, but when I've talked to guys who aren't my friends, when we find a common interest during the conversation they often use the interest to start new...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ok, so I'm aware that not all guys do this, or maybw its just me, but when I've talked to guys who aren't my friends, when we find a common interest during the conversation they often

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Guy's Behavior

How normal are you? how would you rate yourself? how do you think others would rate you? what's your reasoning?

on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the most normal someone can be, even if there is no such thing. I would consider myself about as far from normal as one can be probably between 1-3. I have never had a normal friendship or...

steveguitar

Guru Age: 39

Valentine's Day

Long distance relationship? Does he like me back?

Where I lived there was this guy I really like. I have been crushing on him 2 years now, at first we were really close friends, but then I realized I wanted more, perhaps a BF? But anyways, this guy is 2 years older than...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I think my boyfriends friend likes me?

I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me. We hang out with his friends and my friends together a lot but there is one of his friends that I think likes me...the way he...

Cynthia325

Xper 4 Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

To tell... Or not to tell?

A lot of people say that your heart is where your mind goes when it wanders, or the first person you think of when you wake up, or the last person you think of before you go to sleep. So mine is the same person. It has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

A hundred miles apart and a few years slow?

I have recently come to the realization that I am in love with one of my best friends and I'm not sure what (or if) I can do or say anything about it. We met in ninth grade and were friends really quickly and all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I think I fell in love, but got rejected, can I fix it?

Met this girl, and hungout with her a about 3 times, asked her out and mentioned being more than friends and she freaked out and wanted to be friends, and than she cuts all contact with me and doesn't seem like she wants...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What are the top reasons for a guy coming back?

I have had a guy walk away from what he and I had (last year in September )which was a friendship blossoming into potential dating and we even talked about it, but he decided to get a girlfriend and 2 months later he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Did he just friend zone me?

So this guy added me Facebook because went to school together.. Exchanged numbers and started texting daily, he started showing all this interest in me asking questions said I was beautiful (which of course I didn't take...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is my (ex) best guy friend jealous of me and my relationships?

Anonymous

(30-35)

This is way too long of a story to tell (last 3 paragraphs say the most), but basically, my best guy friend liked me in high school. We dated a bit and then agreed we should be

This is way too long of a story to tell (last 3 paragraphs say the most), but basically, my best guy friend liked me in high school. We dated a bit and then agreed we should be friends. It really seemed mutual. We remained close friends, I dated other people. He was always there. After I broke up with that guy my friend Alston started acting different around me... like hitting on me. I picked up on it, but knowing his track record with girls I figured he was just flirting to flirt. He kind of flirts with anyone... and he's sort of known to be a bit of a player... but never has had a gf?

Anywho, he tried to kiss me and do some other things and I'm not that kind of girl so I said no because we weren't even dating... and I was never sure if he just wanted to get some action or if he really liked me. It was never clear!

Eventually we sort of got together... stayed up all night talking, cuddling, didn't kiss though... held hands... acted like boyfriend/girlfriend minus the making out... I went back to school and it was really evident that I liked him. He ignored me.

I finally confronted him one day and he said it was all revenge for not liking him in high school and that he was just using me. That we were close in high school but weren't close anymore. Where did everything suddenly change? It was very sudden. He said he was going through a bad time and used me to bring himself up. Those are all words from him, written, on paper.

I was heartbroken. I lost my best friend and had no idea.

I told him we couldn't be friends... I mean, how could we? he used me etc etc. He begged and begged, sent me love songs (?) and then later on said those were songs that he figured made me think of him (?)

We stopped talking for several months, but then I realized I was probably hurting him more by NOT talking to him at all.

We've been "trying" at friendship since then.

When we are together, he's very cold, doesn't have much of a sense of humor and VERY judgmental about my life and what I am doing. He ALWAYS asks about guys... and then gets annoyed.

Last time we hung out he asked me all about the boys in my life. I had just been dumped and I was sad. He was trying to be nice... and then he said, "you're just fixated on relationships because you have nothing better to do." What an awful thing to say... especially when he prodded me for answers when I didn't want to tell him. Then he showed me pictures of girls he wants to hook up with. I told him there was a guy in college that I am still close with and he and I had talked about marriage. My friend Alston just completely flipped out! He said there was no way I could know already.

Anyways, I talked to my friends about it and they all said he sounds jealous. I had no idea what to think. I just thought he was being rude the whole time. He kept ASKING about the guys in my life and then had to shut all of them down. AND he showed me pictures of girls? So weird!

What do you guys think?

Sorry that's long.

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Relationships

I want to declare myself to her. Should I? This love question may determine my whole life!

spexie

Xper 5 Age: 32

You may find this story a fairy tale in course. Maybe even a great, funny story to enjoy. I REALLY need your help. Please read, but if you want to answer and just skip it, please

You may find this story a fairy tale in course. Maybe even a great, funny story to enjoy. I REALLY need your help. Please read, but if you want to answer and just skip it, please answer and say you skipped this there. I WILL REALLY APPRECIATE SINCERE, USEFUL, ELABORATED ANSWERS, PLEASE...

GIRLS answers are REALLY appreciated

Here it goes. *sigh*

I have known this girl since I was 14 years old. I know I liked her then However, I wasn't looking for anything then, I so was blind. Girls weren't my priority. Time passed, and we became kind of friends, for I was so like her she began to like me-like me. I got to know it, and the very moment I knew she was expecting me to ask her out or sth of the sort, I stood back. I was not looking for anything with any girl then, or maybe she hadn't awaken the love I feel now yet. I just freezed and said nothing, most probably making her feel bad -or at least I would have felt that if I was her then.

Time passed, and she became 15. As promised by her, I was invited to the party, a party that would be a sweet 16 one in my country. As I saw her coming in, she awakened something on me that may never sleep again. I fell in love with her. So much. And she began to forget about me, for now I think of it I guess she had.

Now she had a boyfriend, and so I had to wait. The stupid things they wrote on their fb walls made me so bad sometimes. And the pictures of them kissing. And the words they use. Pure torture. And still I waited. Since then I wrote her three love songs. Beautiful. One of them, "I love you", just as that, being the evolution of my love towards her. And how much I loved her then.

Her relationship wasn't forever and it was over. I guess he cheated on her, perhaps for her not giving him sex or sth like that. Besides, being objective, the guy was ugly. I don't see what she saw on him. And I'm not being just mean for jealousy. Two years passed.

So it was my time to ask her out. When I did, she put a rather silly excuse.The only relationship with her was Facebook chatting. Our friendship was lost, except when I talk to her I talk like if we were friends from a lifetime.

SO HERE'S THE POINT. I'M TOO SHY. SHE LIKED ME ONCE. TIME PASSED. I ASK HER OUT FOR I AM IN LOVE WITH HER. SHE REJECTS ME MAYBE FOR ALMOST LOSING CONTACT (CHATTING REALLY RARELY). 9 MONTHS HAPPENED SINCE I ASKED HER AND WAS REJECTED. WE CHAT EVERY TWO MONTHS, BECAUSE I'M TOO SHY TO CHAT MORE AND BECAUSE SINCE I ASKED HER OUT SHE TAKES TOO LONG TO ANSWER ME EVERY TIME. MAYBE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO ME. MAYBE I'M BOTHERING HER.

BUT I'M IN LOVE WITH HER.

This is my idea... I WANT TO TELL HER BY Facebook MY LOVE, AND SHOW HER MY SONG RECORDED. TELL HER WHAT I FEEL, NOT EXPECTING ANYTHING. I DON'T FEEL I STAND A CHANCE. BUT I REALLY LOVE HER.

We are both 19 years old now... A long time has passed

WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO? CHOOSE FROM THE POLL PLEASE ONLY IF YOU READ THE DETAILS HERE.

Help!

Oh, I love her... I love her so much.

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Break Up & Divorce

Do you treat others badly? Please read my problem

My ex of 6 years left me for a 18 year old girl. She just turned 19. he's 23 I'm 21. The girl moved in with him in November, three weeks after dating. She paid for everything including clothes and bills. She said she had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What do you think I should do? I'm having real problems here..

I am having some serious trouble, now girls and guys I know at least some of you have either gone through or have known someone to go through the same thing. Falling in love with your best friend, whether or not you...

RoseThorne19

Xper 5 Age: 32

Family & Friends

This isn't any ordinary relationship. Can I have some advice?

Okay call me crazy but I'm in love. I've been in love with this girl since my freshmen year. There are so many songs that remind me of her, we flirt with each other constantly and we've hooked up and gone to 2nd base....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I'm on thin ice. I know she wants to like me. How can I make sure I don't make any mistakes?

I met this girl at an appt. party who goes to the same college as I do. We ended up going back to my dorm and making out. I could tell her intentions were "hook-up" but I thought she was really cool, so I didn't try to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Does he want a relationship or just a friendship?

Hi - I'm trying to decide if a guy who I dated very briefly in the past is coming back into my life with an interest in dating, or if he just wants friendship or even just a hook up. This is someone I had feelings for and...

TryingMyBest

Xper 5 Age: 50