Search Results: getting over an online dating

Okay. I have been in a relationship for 7 years. With one separation for almost a year and one for 6 months. I am 24 and he is 26. We met when I was 17 and he was 19. We had a toxic relationship when we were younger but were each others best friends and so in love. We also have always lived together since about a month into the relationship. He did a lot of very fishy things for a long time in our relationship. I never actually caught him up physically cheating. Just things like flirting and going to far with girls in texting and online. I also cheated on him in the beginning, which he knows. Well, we grew up a bit, had a daughter, but the trust issues were still there from the past. We separated for 6 months. He started dating someone else, and was completely faithful and good to her. I was shocked and jealous and kinda proud of him. Well, we worked through things, we are adults now, with a child, new mentalities, and still love each other. But he is an extremely private person, always has been with everyone. I hate this. I can't stop trying to snoop on him. I saw him be faithful to someone else. I trust that he's faithful to me. I have snooped through his facebook, email, texts, etc. and have found nothing worth even fighting about. He is getting sick of me doing this. I just am so afraid for him or anyone else to "get over" on me or think they're slipping something by me. Even though since we've been back together I have found nothing that serious he still keeps all of his things locked up tight, passwords, locks, etc. Is it possible that he is just a private person? Because I feel like anyone who does that is hiding something.

Also; there was a while where he agreed to keep no locks on our phones. Until I took the snooping too far. Then the locks went back on.

Girls, do you snoop? If you don't, how do you keep yourself from doing it?

Guys, are any of you very private people even though you don't have nething to hide?