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All of my closest friends, including my "best" friend and roommate, started up a group on Facebook where they make plans to go out all the time. This started after I told them I was tired of being the one to organize ALL of the meetups by myself with no help from any of them. I was never added to this group, so I'm never even aware of these meetups taking place.

I found out, because I was home when my roommate was heading to one of them. I asked her where she was going, because I wanted to know how long she would be out to see if we could make plans together. She told me where she was going and with whom. I obviously got upset.

Then, my roommate tells me that she told all of them, that I wouldn't want to attend that evening, because I'd be spending time with my boyfriend, whom was working all night. But this never actually happened, she never said this to them, she just told me that she had said this, so that I wouldn't be mad at the rest of them. The fuck? So basically, she spoke on my behalf, without checking with me. So obviously she's the problem, right?

I confronted them, to inform them that my roommate doesn't speak for me, and they told me about the Facebook group. They refuse to admit that I was intentionally left out because the information was right there in the group for all to see, and they're all pointing the finger at each other saying that someone else should have added/invited me to the group, and that I have no right to be upset, because it's "no big deal", and I'm just being a drama queen.

My ex broke up with me twice two years ago. End of 2016. He was my first boyfriend and it was a horrible experience. He was an alcoholic and abuser. I could tell he was a very broken man but he tried to have fun and be happy.

When he deactivated his social media two years ago I knew in my gut something was wrong but I couldn’t find out until fast forward to current time when I moved back into my hometown. He drunk drove and almost killed someone and now he’s in jail. This happened a month after our breakup. I had no idea until I had a hunch to look him up.
Serves him right and he deserves to be in there but I also feel so bad for him because I know he doesn’t have any support and he’s alone. I don’t think many people know and I know his parents probably disowned him. It’s all assumptions though. I’m a spiritual person and although I don’t feel anything romantic- my heart breaks that he reached this point in life. Although he didn't give one crap about me I wish I could send an anonymous letter telling him to stay strong and god is making a plan for him.

Anytime I have a fight with past friends or anyone in general I always reach out and see how they are and 99% of the time we are cool. Reached out to ex best friends- ex acquaintances and more. No matter who. Would it be weird if I send an anonymous letter to him? Ugh but I may be considered a stalker and he may report me? I maybe his brother may find out and get mad? Is it over stepping the line? I really have a big heart which is bad. I reached this part in my life where I’m going to church and giving out to the community and etc.

So my boyfriend and I are both not very popular and not very pretty. He gets bullied majorly because of his accused unibrow. Fellow students are immature and mock him by posting a "meme" comparing him to a seal an in the hallways they *orf at him. Recently the bullying has been carried over to me, being the girlfriend, and they have been picking on him for being with me. This is my assumption, but he lately has been avoiding me in the hallway and I believe it's because he is embarrassed of me and told the boys (who he calls friends but are bullying him) that we weren't dating (again only my assumption). Examples of him avoiding me are, •Telling me he was going to come by me in the morning but not and blaming me •holding back whenever he saw me so we wouldn't have to walk to class together •Whenever I look at him, he looks away •Telling me he wants to talk and sit by me, but doesn't show. I got mad at him because of this and discussed it with him. As we were talking it through, he was at a game and one of my friends, (one who HAS lied to me before so I don't know if I can trust or not) told me they saw him laughing with his friends about me and saying we weren't dating, when we were. She also said he thought she saw "EX" as my name and Snapchat. He denies it all and I have to trust him, but I broke it off with him that night. Two days later he game to the game to talk to me and we talked but my best friend stayed by me. We talked about us and I made him cry because I sort of made our break up official. I felt super bad. His dad showed up and I got scared because I thought he was going to have a talk with me. Because of that, me and my best friend avoided them on our way to our car. Me and him kept in contact all night and the next day (today). We talking today and called each other. I feel like I gave him too many chances before an he took advantage of them. I feel like he shouldn't have any more chances. I don't know what to do and I need help. I love him so much.

I’ve been friends with this girl since we were little. We call ourselves best friends but it always seems like she treats me lower than her. Everything I do she has to one up me or pretend she does it too... She even made me walk by myself to her house because she wanted “alone time” with her boyfriend when WE WERE ALL WALKING TO THE SAME PLACE. She’s made me walk in the rain by myself when she got a ride, and made an excuse as to why I couldn’t come in the car with her.

She does this stuff a lot, and she is ALWAYS with her boyfriend, and she’s ALWAYS asking for attention by being “goth” and saying she’s depressed, suicidal, has OCD + anxiety, and has vertigo and tons of other illnesses that SHE HASN’T EVEN BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH. And the reason she hasn’t gone yet is cuz she knows it’s for attention. She’s also already had sex with 3 guys and we’re only 15!

Don’t get me wrong though... we’ve been best friends forever and I’ve let her ways fly, but I’m considering just dropping her now. She’s actually sleeping over as I type this, she went to bed early. She’s mad at me because we didn’t do what we planned on doing.

I won’t have many other friends if I drop her because she’s one of my few friends... But I think it’s best. What do you guys think?