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He hits our sister, calls her a man and a lesbian because she has a cute little pixie cut, tells her no man would ever love her, that she looks like a hippo, he yells at our dad that he is a "Fat, stupid, butthead", he attacks me, he tells our mum horrible things like she is a "old hag/bat", and that he hates her. He does not have a drug/alcohol issue, the core of the problem seems to be his computer addiction. His temper is just terrible, he is 16 but might grow out of it. Our parents don't really say much about it though. They do take away his computer for periods of time and that sends him into a cray meltdown. He is a good guy underneath but I have been thinking about when he gets married, will he treat his wife and kids this way? If he carries on like this, should I warn his girlfriends what he is like or would that be totally out of line? I have tried talking to him, he listens but then flies into a fit when his computer gets involved and just abuses our sister in general. I mean, I can be kind of rude and can swear a bit but I never like say hurtful things and it is never unless they flipped out at me first. He always does it just because someone annoys him or in the case of my sister, just because she exists. When I am angry, I never get violent. I pretty much never have temper issues. Does anyone else have experiences like this? Can anyone help? I am not asking for myself, I am fine. It is mainly for my sister and the future women who I could see him treating the same and beating. And no, he does not have some girlfriend now that I want for myself so I am going to bad mouth him. Our taste in women is so different.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now. We went slow so it's good she didn't have sex with me for almost 2 months.

The problems I have is that she has a lot of guy friends who all happen to be single from what I know. I don't know if it's because she's insecure or what. When asked what her biggest fear in a relationship is its because she feels like she's not good enough so my thinking is she has a lot of male attention to help boost her confidence and validate herself not to have sex with them.

Also I still haven't met her family apart from her little sister who's 12 years old we went out to dinner on her birthday. I can see why I haven't met them yet she got a divorce last year she was married for 3 years she said he cheated on her and I don't know for certain I just have to go based off of her word. She also has an iud birth control implant but she said it's because she was married and even with that she won't have unprotected sex with me so I respect her for that.

I don't know what to do please help how do I tell her this bothers me without being whiny or insecure?

I did not pursue a super - hot girl because of her past.

My friends saw her hugging a dude, coming in car with some dude to college and then some dude picking her up in car from college.

So i knew that she was involved with someone, so i did not pursue her because she is not good long-term girlfriend material, she is a cheater and is only good for friends with benefits type of relation.

This girl made her sister and friends stalk me , she was kind of obsessed with me.

Now, here is the problem, mostly all girls have ex boyfriends but my problem is if a woman is with a guy and she is already lining up a replacement that means she is weak to go single all by herself,
if a woman constantly needs one guy after the other, isn't it a sign of weakness?