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I am 26 and my boyfriend is 22. Coming this March, we have been together for 3 years. During our 3 years, it has been very rough. In the beginning, I've dealt with him calling me names, screaming at the top of his lungs/ in my face/ punching walls/ throwing things/, cheating on me, creating secret accounts by asking other women for sex, forming relationships online with other girls (where he'd stay up from the day until 6am with them & ignore me), calling other girls and prostitutes to meet with them (but would never follow through with it), and lying. Now, I would have left, but I stayed because I understood he was insecure about himself since he told me he was, and I gave him another chance when he said he snapped out of it and realized how much he was hurting me. He promised all this would change and it'd be in the past. We were working on trust again. I have not cheated, not lied, not deceived, and not have been unfaithful.

One of our reoccurring problems, is that he hides stuff from me and it always has to do with other women. Whether it be flirting or visiting sites. For a long time, HE STOPPED doing these things and our trust was almost restored UNTIL yesterday. We share a phone. I opened it and all these nude pictures of women popped up in the private browser. He forgot to close it. I was upset he felt the need to hide it and what else could he be hiding? He's always "tired" and we hardly have sex or he says I am too loud and he doesn't want to wake his parents. I don't send him sexy pictures anymore; he tells me not to because he doesn't want to get his icloud hacked like other people. It's confusing. He tells me he doesn't have sexy pictures of me so he needs to look at other nude women to get off. It hurts since he always says I am the only person he jerks off to when I have proof that is a lie. The only pictures he has of me are normal smiling pictures and he told me he's a visual person. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. It's old. Help?

Pros
1. We love each other.
2. He wants to have a family.
3. He's a hard worker.
4. He trusts me.
5. He honors his parents.
6. He's faithful, and willing to commit. (We're engaged.)
7. He has good manners. (Opens the door for me, picks up the bill when we go out to eat.)
8. I can rely on him, and know he's always going to be there for me.
9. He is willing to protect me. (Says he would die for the people he loves.)
10. He loves animals and treats them with respect.

Cons
1. Doesn't want to stop sining. (Or even try to. He says he believes in God, and he's a Christian but does things and wants to do things that a Christian shouldn't do. Were unequally yoked. He never wants to read the Bible with me, go to church with me, or even pray for me.)
2. He always puts himself first. (We always have to do what he wants to do or we don't do anything at all.)
3. He is dishonest, and I have caught him in lies.
4. Wants to have sex with a guy.. I just found this out. (Says it's a one time experience just to try it.)
5. Wants to go to bars. (Says it's just while he's young. One time he stayed out all night and never came home till the next day so now I don't allow him to go to bars at all. Caught him one time after it and I know about a total of two times.)
6. Wants to watch another guy have sex with me. (I refuse, I was a virgin when I meet him and already feel guilty for not being married before hand. I believe you become one with the person you share that with and I'm not sharing myself with anyone else except who I love.)
7. Can be hurtful when he talks to me. (Calls me names or tunes me out when I'm talking to him.)
8. Throws things when he gets angry. (Has broken three of my phones in the past, put holes in the walls, and broke my back door. Still never replaced or fixed any of it. Plus other things.)
9. He disrespects my family.
10. We don't communicate as much. (He never calls or texts me anymore during the day when he used to all the time.)