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My GF and I just broke up about an hour ago. And I could really use your feedback in bouncing back from this. I am honestly questioning my own sanity right now. Let me explain briefly here and let's give feedback based on my assumptions being right please.

This girl and I are damn near perfect for each other. I know it, and I she knows it. (Again let's assume that I am just not a giant fucking moron, which apparently I could be, but et's just say I am right.)

I damn near broke down in tears tonight laying everything out for her. There is no question how I feel at this point. There is no question that we have been falling in love with each other. We were talking tonight because we had a problem, and instead of her working to at least try to fix it, she says she just doesn't know why she can't. This is mindfuckingly the problem n she is in tears saying this.) She tells me that she knows she is just not 100% in this with me, but can't seem to figure out why. I would think that since she is crying, she does in fact care about us and obviously this situation saddens her. And in my mind if I cared like that (which I do) I would think "ok, I care so how am I going to make this better?" And I would at least try for a solution. So the million dollar question here, is why would a woman who really cares about someone have the mentality of "let's work on this." Instead of "Idk why I'm not doing this and what the reason is for me that prevents me from working on this." It clearly saddens her to have that approach, so what is the problem then?

Will women sabotage love even after the other person has taken the risk of putting themselves out there 1st? Is this just part of the cat and mouse "game" played in relationships too?

Convo ended after I spilled my guts and then she said she wasn't in 100% with me. And I just said enough said and that was it. Heart. Shattered.

We are perfect together. She knows this. And I am not crazy I swear. So, why would someone do this?