Search Results: afraid of rejection

Have you ever asked someone out, and then after being rejected told them it was a joke?

My best friend has done this to me twice. I'm not sure if he was actually joking (he seemed extremely serious about it when he was asking), or if he is just afraid of rejection. Have you ever done this to someone, or vice...

razzlevannah

Xper 5 Age: 24

I think people only date me because I seem like a challenge or a trophy. How do I get my personality across to people who would actually like me?

I think Im a complex person to deal with. I was bullied throughout most of my childhood and it shaped me into being standoffish and afraid to really be myself around strangers. I mostly put up an image of what people WANT...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he afraid of rejection, or is he just being an asshole?

I have a very good friend that I have known for about five years. We are practically best friends now, but we live fairly far away from each other and go to different high schools. So we facetime and snapchat on the...

razzlevannah

Xper 5 Age: 24

Name your number 1 personality trait of the opposite sex?

To me it is BRAVERY If he is brave then no one can bully him. If he is brave then he is straightforward If he is brave then he is risky If he is brave then he is trustworthy If he is brave then he is confident...

Anonymous

(36-45)

6 Things I Find Attractive in a Man, Apparently

So apparently I got nominated for this challenge thingy. Mainly by @jcampbell115 and @AbdKilani. Thanks guys. This is turning out to be a fantastic introduction, but I’d just like to say I normally only write Takes on...

VaIiant

Yoda Age: 28

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What is wrong with me?

24 male virgin. I know girls look at me or wants to talk to me and also had chances in the past but didn't take them. I know i'm somewhat attractive to women... But all i had was that i first texted women online and meet...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you reconnect with your ex?

Ok, reconnecting with an ex isn't for everyone, but im looking for tips. My ex and i had a great relationship for 2 years. He left due to not wanting to go to the next step in our relationship... moving in. So now it's...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Why most people ( especially girls ) think that rejection & break up is easier to handle for men?

logically : - man have less opportunity to be liked by someone - man in a lot of cultures has o struggle in relationships more than the woman for example in many countries the man has to pay for most of the marriage...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is she letting me know that she falling in love but perhaps afraid to be direct?

I really like this woman that I've become such close friends with, she shows me so much love and affection. We have an amazing spiritual relationship, and we can totally be honest and vulnerable when communicating. I feel...

Horus11

Xper 3 Age: 29

Girls, I'm having a very, very hard time asking a girl out that I know. What's your opinion on the matter and could you help me out?

She waits tables at a restraunt near my house. I eat there frequently and sometimes I'll sit at one of her tables. Often times we'll start up a quick conversation. But I'm never able to get out the words "would you like...

Paul_Carico

Xper 3 Age: 30

What should I do? He doesn't believe me?

I work part time in a coffee shop in my university. There's a guy who comes in every day for a couple of hours to have a drink and do his homework. I started talking to him a couple of months ago and I think he's a cool...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ugly ass fell in love?

All right here’s the story, Sophomore year in high school, first day of class, I see a cute Asian girl but don’t talk to her, just hang my best friend and that’s it, second day y see her again when I’m arriving, now that...

TurtlesiLike

Xper 5 Age: 24

How do I tell if a girl has moved on?

This is about a shy, inexperineced girl I've known for a while. There had been subtle but definitive signs that she liked me. We texted and it went well most of the time, it was really fun sometimes. However, I'm afraid...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I look for a guy if I'm afraid of rejection again?

My guy friend said to ask out a guy that you find attractive and get to know him from there. I don't know if that would work for me because no guy would say yes to me if I do because they'd like to be friends first *hint,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Shy girl who is friendly with everyone suddenly acts avoidant towards me?

There's this shy girl I know and kinda like. She is very friendly and polite with all people, to the point where she almost seems afraid to come off as rude, like a people pleaser but not quite in a bad way. We sometimes...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shy and friendly girl turned rude and avoidant?

There's this shy girl I know and kinda like. She is very friendly and polite with all people, to the point where she almost seems afraid to come off as rude. We sometimes texted, it was basically always me who initiated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys find it "thirsty" if a girl makes the first move?

So my friend is dying to talk to her crush. The only thing is... She's afraid of rejection and seeming "thirsty". So do you guys feel that a girl is thirsty if she makes the first move?

Bhgirl

Xper 3 Age: 38