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When I see all these "nice guys finish last" questions (as well as other similar questions), I always have certain thoughts floating around in my brain...and now I have the words to explain them.

Don't you love it when that happens? :)

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Alot of the dudes who ask, or can very relate to, the types of questions above...i feel want to have a girlfriend, or even something as simple as a girl's phone number SO BADLY...

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...that they don't even care if SHE is attracted to HIM.

What I'm saying is, the dude is so (unintentionally) desperate and selfish, that he doesn't care about the female's physical needs in her partner. He is so focused on having ANY girl that he doesn't care about her physical attraction to him. He thinks:

"Yay, I got a girl!", or "Finally I got that girl I really wanted"...

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...and that's where his thoughts end.

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My point? Me personally...i wouldn't date a girl I felt wasn't physically attracted to me.

Pardon me for being crude, but I want females to look at me and want to f*ck me. I want to be desirable to the female gender. I want them to "double take" me, to smile and flirt with me, and definitely to touch me. :)

I take care of my appearance (shaving, facial routine [no homo lol], hair routine, wearing clean & pressed & properly-fitting clothes, matching outfits, having a personal style).

I eat pretty well health-wise (minimizing junk food, drink tea EVERYDAY as well as one cup of tea per cup of soda, watching food portions overall, drink plenty of water).

I take care of my body (full-body stretches twice a day, I do calisthenics for strength and play basketball/football for cardio, I listen to my body to make sure I get proper rest; my mood overall is usually a positive one because I do all the above).

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My point?

I do all of the above for ME...but I know >=95% of females are attracted to a healthy-looking, stylish, fun-attituded, well-put-together guys.

I want my girlfriend to look at me and say "he's yummy"...

...instead of "he treats me well and he's nice, so I GUESS I'll date him although he's not attractive to me sexually"

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So guys and girls, please vote and elaborate; if you wanna be long-winded I will read it.

Don't forget to rate the question...and thanks for reading as well as your input. :)

In order for you to be interested in him?

I have to say that I am really confident in the type of person I am and I am confident in my looks and the way I carry myself. The one thing I'm not confident about is my social status, and I know that women are really attracted too such things.

I have friends that are rather successful, have gotten the chance to travel and just have that better "status" from sports, military ect... And I have not really had those opportunities in life, because of certain obstacles..

So how big is social status to some of you women? I know some women are even attracted to such things subconsciously. I'd like answers from women from all walks of life.