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We have been 1 year in a relationship with my foreign boyfriend. I used to visit him every week in the house that he and his foreign friend rented (they split bills). My family doesn't like my boyfriend and threatened him to kill. My boyfriend run away to another city and due to fear his friend left the house too.

In July, we were apart from my boyfriend and he blamed me I was destroying his life. He said he is going to find one rich girl to live together who won't bring him to trouble. I did not talk to my boyfriend for 2 weeks. Suddenly, On August, I was surprised he came back and was looking for me. He asked to stay together so fast in a new house and immediately transfer his things including car, big tv, other expensive things. During these months, my boyfriend is cold to me and rejected me many times of sex. I also caught him having so many condoms on his bag. One day, I saw a girl who keeps calling him every morning, afternoon, evening, I wonder why he doesn't take the calls and suddenly this girl text him, "Babe, how are you doing? and he named that girl as "Dianne GF" I was shocked and get mad at him. Saying bullshit! You already have another woman. Are you cheating on me? He denied and said "No, it is just a typo error. She is just a friend and he has an old foreigner.

On September-October, he went back to the City because he said he has to earn money to pay the house. This time we split bills together. I wonder why my boyfriend just visits me once to twice a week per month. I used to call him every day but he won't take my calls. Until in November, I wonder why he didn't go home yet and was only pressuring me to pay house bills. At late 2 AM, I keep calling him nonstop, he never accepts the call just texting I'm busy, I'm playing, don't disturb. At a later time, he accepted my call and gets mad "WHAT DO YOU WANT" I made excuses that I need help in house the faucet is broken. We talk for 20 minutes with my boyfriend.

I love my boyfriend so much however his negatives outweighs the positive

Positive
- He loves to kiss and hugs me tight every night
- He is a good looking man
- He can cook well
- He is good in sex
- He picks me up from work (only sometimes) when we stayed together - He says he is serious about me and wants to marry me
- people says we are both good looking and a good match
Negative
- I caught him in the house sleeping with just some random Stanger girl who he just met in online dating site
- I caught him having so many condoms and lubricants. I wonder where he use it when he never use them to them. We always have unprotected sex. He said it's just a gift from his friend.
- Some chatted me about him. It looks like she is spying and only to find out that sometimes my boyfriend sleeps at her condo in another city. She said she is just trying to help him because he is homeless and they are only friends. I don't know if she is telling the truth? - I caught him chatting many girls. I wonder who are they. He said just investors. He wants to build business but don't have money - he ask me to loan 1m but I don't want and he insult me saying useless
- he ask money and food from me if I can't give he gets mad at me and insult a lot
- he gets mad when I hold his hand in public
- He rejected me many times in sex

OK, so my sister has a girlfriend who goes to christian church every week who admitted to her mother this weekend that she is having sex with some guys for money.

My sister knew she was having sex with more than one guy, but not that she was getting paid for it.

Since her friend hangs around boys from upper income families who's kids have money provided to them, she told my sister now that she's been caught, that she does it for the money that she gets from the guys.

Why would she do this if she goes to church?

Can you do this sort of thing and still be a christian?

What if she keeps doing it?

Is it because her parents make her go to church when she doesn't really want to, or is it because she doesn't really believe that the bible says what she is doing is wrong?

Her mother was able to open her daughters phone somehow and discovered some texts from more than one guy asking her how much she would charge to preform certain sexual acts for them, which they named, and she told them how much.

It made her mother's jaw drop and first become suspicious, and then after doing more checking, found a large number of condoms in her daughters purse.

Is this none of her mothers business since her daughter is 17 now?

Should her mother be checking her daughter's phone and purse at that age?

Shouldn't her daughter have some privacy now that she is an older teenager?

What is your opinion on something like this? Don't be afraid to be honest!