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I’m 18. This is my first job. I started this job at the beginning of this month. Im a server at a fairly new retirement center. The shift is from 11am-7pm. And from 1:30pm-4:30pm all day everyday is literally spent in the break room because there’s nothing to do. (All departments have WAY too much downtime but we get paid to sit on our ass). There is this new manager, Seth (came in about 2 days after I started working there cuz other manager quit). There is also Cher, our floor manager, she interviewed me and she’s really nice. Everybody likes her. There are currently 2 servers, me and a girl that’s my age named Addie. There’s also two cooks, Addies dad and some other guy. Nobody likes Seth. It’s not that he’s mean or anything he’s just a control freak and likes things done a certain way and makes all the rules and changes the entire rhythm of the kitchen. He portions things small and residents get pissed cuz they pay a lot and residents can’t be in the dining room after 6pm, etc. EVERYBODY, including other employees in other departments talk shit about Seth. They call him an asshole etc. Anyways, Cher announced she is leaving in two weeks for another job so it will just be Seth and us. Addie said she’s gonna go back to her job at iHop that she hated. She absolutely hates Seth and Cher quitting was the last straw. She said tomorrow will be her last day and she’s already on the schedule for Tuesday at ihop. She’s not coming back after tomorrow and blocking Seth’s number. Her dad said he’s quitting too and he fucking hates this place. That means I will be the only server stuck in the kitchen with Seth. That other cook will probably quit too. This place is really close to my house and the job is easy it’s just Seth is annoying and I don't know how I feel about serving 40 residents by myself. They also tried to hire other servers but the servers thought the position didn’t fit or never called back my parents will probably be pissed if I quit but I don't know what to do.

Guys, why would you suddenly act distant towards a girl that you're just friends with?

~ MORE INFO:
A guy friend used to give me hugs and was really friendly towards me. Tbh, i liked him a tiny bit, but it was going nowhere, cos i fancied another guy a lot more (and i assumed my guy friend had other girls he talks to, i saw it on his snapchat, so i didn't think it was a big deal).

His group of friends used to tease him by saying he likes me, but i just took as as a joke and brushed it off!

Now he's acting distant & removed me from facebook & instagram, but for some reason, kept me on snapchat and still watches my stories.

~ this guy is best friends with that CONTROL FREAK GUY that I've mentioned in a few questions, so i feel like he might have gotten jealous that i was closer to his best friend and now tells him not to talk to me etc.

~ I've done nothing wrong, but be friendly to him. So maybe he did fancy me (hes quite a shy guy and sometimes blushes) but it hurt his feelings cos it was going nowhere and is trying to get over me?