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so, this guy is my best friend, and I'm his. we have also been sleeping together for about 9 months and he is the only person I have ever been with and I've never had a relationship before. he is quite protective of me and lots of people think we are a couple until we say otherwise. I really like him, he knows that, and I think im falling in love with him. he says he feels the same way about me, but he doesn't want to commit to a long term relationship right now. he also says he stands by me being to young (i'm 19 he's 26), yet he seems to be the only person who thinks that (even my parents ship us). he's even introduced me to his family and oldest closest friends and our main friendship circle is the same. what do you guys think?

Let’s say your best friend didn’t like your fiancé (whom you think is 100% the one), and your fiancé figured it out. They got hurt and the situation was falling apart. You found out that if you wanted to get married, you had to pick between your fiancé and dump your best friend, or having your best friend at your wedding and finding another fiancé whom you wouldn’t love nearly as much as your current one.

And you have to pick one or the other. There isn’t a “my best friend will get over it” or “my fiancé will get over it” kinda thing. You’d have to pick one or the other.