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I am completely doomed when it comes to finding love. I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I only want a woman who has never had her first love or a boyfriend before. I don't know if I will find that. I am tired of searching.

I still want to have the option at least to have kids and be a dad. Should I consider surrogacy or adoption?

My time is occupied studying and I’m 23. I have no friends. Never even had a girlfriend.
I find it hard to even make true friends let alone finding a good girl.
Why is it so hard. Like why do I always have to put myself out there.

I don't have a specific one in mind. I don't even know if any of the one's I'd like are single, let alone would be interested in me, and I have zero idea of how to approach, but this is more about the concept of if it's a good fit for me or not.

The entire concept seems unfitting for me because of how social it is.

I hate parties, and I don't like lots of attention. But it's just that I'm racking my brain trying to find a girlfriend who shares my interests and hobbies, and there are very few ways that those interests/hobbies manifest in public that result in seeing an actual person, and every time I see someone I think I would click with, it's one of those people...

Nearly all the activities I enjoy result in staying home by myself. And I do not know how to find artistically talented gamer nerds outside of the rare comicon or the overpriced arcade (which aren't very populated by my age group to begin with). Anyone I'd like is either a shut-in while doing those activities, or has one of those jobs.

Assuming you knew I was attractive, talented, a gamer, an artist, and a nerd (ie a male equivalent to these women), do you think I should persue this? Or do you have a better idea for finding that type of girl?