Should I consider surrogacy or adoption as a single dad?

[Inthecraphole]

I am completely doomed when it comes to finding love. I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I only want a woman who has never had her first love or a boyfriend before. I don't know if I will find that. I am tired of searching.

I still want to have the option at least to have kids and be a dad. Should I consider surrogacy or adoption?

Yes

No

[ChrisMaster69]

The moment you say that to the adoption agency etc, they will remove you totally from any option.

i would also say you are not mentally stable to raise a child with that attitude.

[Redstang88]

Not a chance in hell you’d be approved for either with your obvious lack of mental stability

[Inthecraphole]

What do you mean? Lol

[Redstang88]

I mean there’s something not quite right with you

[Inthecraphole]

Yeah? Why would that make me mentally unstable? Because I have a unique requirement?

[Redstang88]

Your insane obsession with it is red flag #1

[SnakeBoop]

If you really really want to. I just don't get folks who only want the "complete virgin package" if you will. Red flags tend to fly from that.

[Inthecraphole]

I never had a real girlfriend myself. I don't want to give my heart to a woman the first time who has already given hers to someone else before.

[SnakeBoop]

try to not romanticise it so much. because at the end of it, if they're not with that person, there's a reason. Having "lived and learnt" is sometimes much better and more mature than "love infactuated" and over romanticising the ordeal like you're literally doing. Like I said, it throws up a lot of red flags. Like controlling tendencies, needing to create a "dependant" bond and such.

[Agape93]

Wait, are you suggesting that you adopt a girlfriend or something?

[Anonymous]

Your expectations of a potential girlfriend seems a bit immature to warrant you even consider having a child at this point.

[Inthecraphole]

I never had a real girlfriend myself. I don't want to give my heart to a woman the first time who has already given hers to someone else before.

[Anonymous]

No offence. But with the questions you have asked, i will be concerned if you have a daughter.

[Inthecraphole]

Lol... Why is that?

[Lee1515]

yes you shode

[Inthecraphole]

You are 13 tho

[Lee1515]

yes i am