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I’ve always promised myself that I’ll never have kids. Or date someone with kids. My reason for that is because kids are rude, too much stress, and they have no respect. I can’t put up with that.

My current girlfriend at the moment has a 15 year old daughter. I never had intentions to date this woman. We started off as friends with benefits while she was going through s divorce. Later on we got so used to being around each other. Which eventually lead to a relationship. She’s a good girlfriend who does everything for me. She tells me that she’s in love with me and want to remarry me.

Even though she’s a good girlfriend I still don’t wanna be with a woman who has a kid. I’ve never met her daughter. From what it sounds like. It seems like her daughter is a handful. She had called me many times crying because of her daughter verbally abusing her. Which I know there is no way I’d put up with that shit.

I recently broke up with her and she had a breakdown. She lost a lot of weight. Stopped taking care of herself. The break up lead her to serious destruction. I felt bad for her because I care about her and hate seeing her like this. So were back together and she’s happy again.

I still haven’t met her daughter, but I also made it clear. If me and her daughter can’t get along then we have to split. I’m the type of guy who hates kids. I find it annoying how my sister always has to stop and compliment peoples babies. I honestly hate kids and don’t want them near me.

But I’m willing to wait until I meet this woman’s daughter, and make the decision on our relationship. Gag I need your advice. Should I stay and wait until I meet the daughter? Or just leave?

Ok so my girlfriend said all black guys liked bigger women, do you think that's true?

before some of you go nuts let me just say,
My girlfriend is not racist, she's mixed.
Her dad is like light skinned so she's 50% black
She just looks a little lighter than your average biracial person.

Anyway I was watching her get dressed & she told me she wanted to lose weight
I responded
"there's nothing wrong with your body, you're thick."

She responded:
"of course you don't see anything wrong with me, all black guys like big girls"

Do you think that's true?

& my girlfriend literally is not fat.
She weighs like 200 lbs
Her stomach is literally pretty flat
Her bottom half is where the weight Is, but she's not fat.

Me personally, I've always liked bigger women
I'm attracted to women who are between
200 - 300 lbs.
but I thought it was just me

We've been together for a year and she has really piled on the beef and become very lazy. She used to exercise but now she just lays around stuffing her face. She wears nothing but stretchy yoga pants and leggings because most of her wardrobe no longer fits. Gone is the hardworking fit and healthy sexy thin girl I was started dating and in her place is this behemoth of a woman. I dont want to spend my life with an immoral lazy fat person and this is clearly a red flag indicating what the rest of our lives will be like together.