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My boyfriend and I are both moving. He is going to college. I am still in Highschool. He's 17 and I am 16. He's never dated anyone but me, I've had multiple short term boyfriends in the past. But with him things are so different. I love him completely. He's great with my siblings, he will go with me to take my youngest brother to the park and will play with him so I can have a break. He's funny, and so sweet. . He doesn't pressure me to do anything. He remembers all the small details. We've let our guards down with one another. He have sweet intimate moments, like yesterday it was late at night and we were walking and we stopped and put on music, and he taught me to slow dance, even though I kept messing up. Even though we are both still virgins, the spark is definitely there. Everything is so natural. He never even asked me officially out. We just said one day, hey are we dating and the answer was yeah. He and I laugh so often. We laugh at ourselves and eachother and just little mundane things. He's my best friend, I feel like I'm living in a movie. It seems too good to be true. He will play guitar for me, and I'll sit in awe. Every Sunday he rights me a poem or short story, I look forward to them each week. He encourages me, and is understanding. I motivate him and he does the same. We talk about or futures not as just me or just him but as us both being in each other's future. I'm far too young for marriage, but I can't imagine being with anyone else. After we are done with college we want to move in together. But it's such a long long time away. Being with him makes me so happy. Being apart even for two weeks makes me miss him. I believe living apart from him for several years with an end goal of being together is most definitely worth it. It will be so, so very hard. And many people can't make it work. I don't know if he and I can, but I know we will try with every ounce of our beings. Because for someone like him, how can I let distance divide us?

1-) In life, we should have certain words filtered, my boyfriend does not seem to have one. I am upset because, he has this tendency of referring to woman as bi***es, ”oh tha b*tch does this or that, in a very despotic way, he does not say this all the time, but once he does, it just bothers me, makes me mad. Why in the world, would a man referr to a woman like this, its so disgusting!

2-) Whenever I’m in positive vibes, he seems to suck my good vibe away ( they call this an ”emotional vampire”) once he comes and picks me up, whenever I get in his car uuugh, he always says something that bothers me, example:”your breath smells like mint, I don’t like mint, or your perfume is too strong”, instead of greating me nicely, boom he says something that’s not nice. Believe me I rather have good breath, than not a stinky one and my scent is not overpowering, it’s just a clean cologne.

3-) Whenever he can, he points out something negative, oh your butt, you need to do squats, your too skinny, you need to gain 5 pounds, I tell him ”I love myself like this” if you don’t like it, then I’m sorry, and all he says is, ”well your going to stay alone”

4-) This one is the one that I notice the most, when I am looking pretty, have my hair down flowing, cutely dressed, etc, he will say something negative, ”oh your hair is thin, whats wrong’, your butt is sagging, Mind you none of these are true to my knowledge, my hair is medium thickness, and my butt, is a little smaller after I lost weight, but not sagging.

5-) I feel, as if Everything has to be on his terms, that’s how I see it, can you imagine we only see eachother once a week, or once every 2 weeks, we dont even manage to see eachother on the weekends Like normal couples do!.