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sooo this guy and I have been dating for 5 weeks. We text everyday and usually meet up twice a week, usually later in the evening but this is because he lives kinda far from me.. still he drives 1,5hour to see me. meaning he needs to wake up at 4.30 since I always ask him to stay over.
On the second date he told me that he didn;t really want a relationship. he just turned 22 and got out of a 4 year long relationship. WHICH SUCKS because I do.

Still we text everyday, yes we hook up to but I'm usally the one starting it! haha! He told me after 2 weeks that he want's us to be complelty exlusive, no dates no kisses no nothing. Now we met up like 7 times and we were talking about how we actually haven't known each other that long, haha he didn;t believe me saying we been dating for 3 months, laying nect to eah other and just cuddling for hours is just so comfortable, how we act and do its like we are in a relationship.. he even told his mom about me. which I find adorable, he asks me if we go somewhere if i want to take my friends along everything just seems right. he talks as if we are gonna stay together for quite some time... because when im beeing impatient about doing something he is saying aaawh we can do that in summer! for me who has never been in a relationship for longer then 6 months thats a big deal! haha

But yeah you get my drift! so I like him.. like a lot alot! but what am I to him? am I a fuck buddy? a friends with benefit? or am i a girlfriend? He is really not romantic though which I do think is a shame.. so im wondering maybe that the thing! please give me some intell! I NEED TO KNOW!! Thank you for answering

I'm very laid back when it comes to relationships with guys. I personally value space and freedom a ton, so I feel like I'm respecting a guy when I give him space. I've always assumed guys hated clingy girls, and strived to be not clingy at all. I'm worried that I've overcompensated, and this has made me come off too cold and detached though. Obviously, there is such a thing as "too clingy". We've all met her. But maybe there is a line. Most girls come into a guys life trying to get closer while guys get to play it cool. When these roles are filled, getting in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is easier. *(I like this guy a lot, and I started comparing us to his last relationship, dangerous I know. His last girlfriend was a regular clingy girl. I think there relationship moved a lot faster than his and I's relationship is moving. We are already physically involved and everything's amazing. I know he agrees. I want things to progress. But I give him SO much space. And if he's not tied down he usually sleeps around. I understand this, but I want him to exclusively be with me to be honest. I've given him virtually no hints at that though other than asking him to chill. And telling him he's the shit haha. But some may not consider that a hint at all. Should I be more assertive? We don't communicate about most things directly (sounds stupid but I think we both like it this way). We just attempt to read each other and play it cool and it ends up being sexy haha. But should I cut the games and say something? Or just keep playing it slow? He's led pretty much every aspect of our relationship so far. He kissed me, usually initiates hanging out, etc. Am I being too hands off? Sorry for the length. I just can't get this boy out of my head. I'm sure if I pushed in he'd date me. But maybe we'd both prefer casual sex anyway. Dude, all of these emotions, on top of my indecisiveness. Bleh.)*