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Message D - Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you is because i feel insecure about our friendship and that’s because I haven’t told you that I like you as more than a friend. I have done for months but I i didn’t tell you before because i was afraid of losing you as a friend and I’d much rather have you as a friend than lose you completely. I’m telling you now as I thought my insecurity would just lead to you feeling even more bombarded & that wouldn’t be healthy. I’ve also realised that friendship needs to be based on honesty. I think as long as you know and I have a response from you, I’ll be able to give you space when necessary, whatever your response is as it will be a massive burden lifted off my shoulders. My question for you is would you date me? At the very least, I hope we can remain good friends - you really are a great friend. I will respect whatever your response Is. Take as much time as you need to respond, I won’t follow this up until you reply.

Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you (although I’ve been giving you space recently) is because i feel insecure about our friendship and that’s because I haven’t told you that I like you as more than a friend. I have done for months but I i didn’t tell you before because i was afraid of losing you as a friend and I’d much rather have you as a friend than lose you completely. I’m telling you now as I thought my insecurity would just lead to you feeling even more bombarded & that wouldn’t be healthy. I’ve also realised that friendship needs to be based on honesty. I think as long as you know and I have a response from you, I’ll be able to give you space when necessary, whatever your response is as it will be a massive burden lifted off my shoulders. At the very least, I hope we can remain good friends - you really are a great friend. I will respect whatever your response Is. Take as much time as you need to respond, I won’t follow this up until you reply.

Hey, I want to tell you something. Being an introvert, I love my own space but I’ve realised that the reason I’ve always been persistent with you is because i feel insecure about our friendship and that’s because I haven’t told you that I like you as more than a friend. I have done for months but I i didn’t tell you before because i was afraid of losing you as a friend and I’d much rather have you as a friend than lose you completely. I’m telling you now as I thought my insecurity would just lead to you feeling even more bombarded & that wouldn’t be healthy. I’ve also realised that friendship needs to be based on honesty. I think as long as you know and I have a response from you, I’ll be able to give you space when you need it, whatever your response is. At the very least, I hope we can remain good friends - you really are a great friend. I will respect whatever your response Is. Take as much time as you need to respond, I won’t follow this up until you reply.

- I’ve always liked her but didn’t tell her because I was afraid of losing the friendship.
- When I told her i feel like she’s avoiding me she said she’s seen me more than anyone else. She said reason she’s reluctant to meet atm is because she feels overwhelmed with everyone wanting to meet up with her and fact she hasn’t had a single night in for weeks. She agreed to meet me for lunch.
- Thing is she’s always agreed to meet me at least once a week (often more) and if I don’t arrange something she used to ask me. She also used to text me all the time.
- My insecurity about the friendship made me realise I need to tell her how I feel. She’s said before that she does get sick of people when she sees them too much. There’s a part of me that now feels that she used to like me but now she’s just fed up of me.