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I recently got into an argument with my mom because I was at the Starbucks at my Target alone when this thirty-something year old man randomly sat next to me, even though there were other empty seats everywhere, and started complimenting me. Now I know this might just be him trying to be nice, but keep in mind that I am a 4'11, 16 year old girl. I politely say thank you but proceeded onto texting my mom, who is shopping in the same Target, to please hurry because I was a bit scared.
Later on, as my mom and I discussed about the incident, the conversation led to an argument about whether or not girls should be showing less skin (even though I was just wearing gym shorts and a t-shirt) to avoid guys' "instinctual" reactions. In her opinion, girls should be taught to wear more modest clothing as opposed to what I thought, which was to teach guys to control their behavior instead.
Her argument is that by wearing revealing clothes, it is almost like girls are "asking for it". Even in hot weather, she says girls shouldn't be so revealing because less fabric doesn't affect your body temperature that much.
As for my argument, I said that instead of pushing the idea of covering up more down girls' throats, we should teach guys to control their behaviors instead. Along with that, I also argued that girls don't even have to be wearing revealing clothing to be catcalled. I gave my outfit, a high school t-shirt with gym shorts and flip flops, as an example of this.
What do you think?

Do you guys look at other girls while you have a girlfriend? Do you do it a lot when you're not with her or does it feel wrong or something or do you avoid it? What do you guys think while you're staring at that girl? (Either her body or she just has a really pretty face)
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I was wondering because I guess it's normal for guys to look. Today I went to a fair with my boyfriend, and I saw this girl and I'm not gonna lie she did have a big ass😂 I disimulated and looked from the corner of my eye to see if he'd stare or not and he was quite a lot. The girl did have a pretty big butt and I guess it did bother me because it makes me feel like I'm not enough:/ , but it scares me what if she ever approached him like what would he do or what would you guys do? What do you guys think or feel?
When you see these random girls, let's say one is more attractive than your girlfriend, does it change the way you guys feel about your girlfriend? What would you do if that really hot girl approached you without your girlfriend knowing? What do you guys feel about your girlfriends?
It just kind of makes me feel like I'm not good enough, and that he'd enjoy her more than Me or being single more because he could go for whatever girl he wants that would obviously be better than me in those ways. He tells me he loves me and he's really sweet and caring to me, but I don't know, out of curiosity I'd like to know.
Like he says my ass is amazing and all, but when I see him staring at girls like that it just makes me feel like ok it's not enough though apparently? 😂