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So me and my ex boyfriend had a pretty complicated break up. Me and him are on complete good terms though and we were friends. Everything changed between me and him on Monday after school when I went to tutoring and somehow happened to have the same the same tutoring as my ex boyfriend. Me and him are friends so we were talking and getting along as usual. After the tutoring ended me and him decided to hang out for a bit. He couldn't stop starring at me and looking into my eyes, he soon started crying. I asked what was wrong and he refused to tell me. Me and him kissed and a couple minutes after that he whispered in my ear and said "I though I have thought about this long enough. I've been thinking about a second chance" I started crying after he said that and he whispered again saying "I've missed you so damn much" and I asked him if that meant that we were back together and he nodded yes. After I got home I texted him late at night and asked him if getting back together was what he wanted and he said yes. Today at school he informed me that we weren't together but he wanted to see if things would work out between us. After he informed me about that we made out and I held his hand. I have a feeling that he will say yes but I want more opinions I would very much appreciate it if you guys voted down below on the poll. by the way I'M NOT 14 I AM 16 YEARS OLD just letting you guys know :)

I was mentally tortured for months by my ex jj, i found out he wasn't on his meds. I begged for months for us to be together. He is my first true love. He has new meds and is doing therapy. I have a current boyfriend named Jude, whom i do not know if I wanna stay with. Yes I am happy, but most things come before me to him. Jj wants me back and has become a better person. No matter what they will both be in my life. I feel myself wanting jj back. But then i feel guilty because im with Jude. Jj won't let me go and will continue to fight. We have been friends for years. I am lost and I do not know if i should go back to jj and let him have a second chance or stay with Jude. Please help.

I was “enlightened” at the feedback I got after recently asking if it was a good idea to give a cheating boyfriend a second chance. I realized that the majority of the responses I received were from people who had been cheated on, so it made me curious about the mindset of the person who actually did the cheating. Thanks for your honest answers and feedback.

Limiting this to dating situations - not marriage. That's a whole different story!