Search Results: too soon to marry

Does Love Even Exist?

This is not a normal take. It is just something that I have been struggling with the last few weeks and I guess I just feel like venting. I'm having a really hard time dealing with the fact that I have been single for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Family & Friends

Is it normal to hate your mom's boyfriend? How do I deal with all this?

So, my parents have been divorced for about a year now. I understood why they divorced so my younger brother and I are okay with it. And there was this guy my mom new for about a year too, this guy is really in love with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I think my childhood crush doesn't like me anymore?

These last 4 months have been an absolute rollercoaster ride. I've tried to pretend I don't have social anxiety or depression and have tried to go about my business in a normal manner. Whilst I have enjoyed myself, it's...

CrowdingFiend

Xper 5 Age: 30

Flirting

Why are women looked down so much for talking to a guy first?

Nothing pisses me off more than when someone tells me to, "let him go to you, don't do anything... if he likes you, he'll go to you." For me it's like saying, "guys like girls who put ZERO effort in talking to them, it's...

Mooochi

Xper 4 Age: 29

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Is it common for women to have sex with attractive men/players on the side while dating/married to a good man?

Rumors say that it is common for women to tolerate dating or marrying a good man just for financial and emotional stability. The truth is that they can't stop having sex with attractive men and players until they become...

Anonymous

(30-35)

WHY does he want to meet my parents?

We've been together for 5 months and now he wants to meet my family. I think its too soon and i'm still wondering why he wants to meet them so soon. Is it to impress me? Is it to impress them? Is it because he wants to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why would a man turn off a woman when?

1. Share many things in common 2. Get along well 3. They are around the same age 4. They are both single, no married, no kids 5. Neither one have plans for marrying in the future regarldess if it is with each other or...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should we have an intervention? How?

My best friend has been in a relationship with this girl for over four years, though the first two were off and on. None of our friends ever really understood why he is with her, right from the start. The first time he...

Sara413

Editor Age: 39

I'm 17 he's 23. Is this wrong? Could things be moving too fast?

I'm very mature for my age. I'm pretty set on what I want in life, and I'm set on all of my goals. He is too. In fact, he has the same goals as me. We just met, but again, I'm 17. I'm still young. I know what I want in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

The Paradox of Uniqueness

Years ago I saw a sign that I found very funny and disturbing at the same time: It is true that each person is unique. But if everyone is unique, isn’t it also true that no one is? This represents an interesting paradox....

talloak

Guru Age: 66

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I talked to my boyfriend about our future yesterday, but he's not ready to start planning our future yet?

I’m 26 and my boyfriend is 28. We’ve been dating for close to four years now. I have a really close relationship with him and I always tell him what’s on my mind and vice versa. Yesterday I told him that I had a lot on my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I ask her parents about proposing to her before I actually do it? How do I ask them?

Her parents are divorced, she is really close to her mom, her biological dad is around too. Should i ask her dad about this too? or should i only ask her mom? she does have a stepdad should i include him into this? i feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When do you marry your other half?

Six weeks ago, my father met a woman. Four weeks ago, my father made the woman his girlfriend. Two weeks ago, he moved in with her and her twelve year old daughter. Almost a week ago, they got engaged. Too soon? I...

ImNotASlut

Xper 6 Age: 26

Entertainment & Arts

10 Books You Should Read

The Help by Kathryn Stockett I read this book twice. It's kind of a popular book and there's a movie based on it. Roxane Gay has a whole essay on how bad it is on her own book, Bad Feminist . She claims it reduces...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Guys, My Boyfriend's Best Friend Was an Ex/fooling around 8 years ago. Should I be worried and should I question my boyfriend again?

First off, my boyfriend loves me a lot. We've been through ups and down and we're now pretty good. I have no doubt that my boyfriend cares a lot about me and he's planning to marry me. There's just one thing that is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, how do you feel if a guy gets serious real quick?

I've only been with my boyfriend for a short time but he's already talked about seeing a future and marrying me and kids and moving out of state and stuff in a few years. How should I react? Is it a turn on/off? I see a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I want to marry him and it scares me. Help?

I've been with him for 5 years. for 3 years we have lived together. I love him and he loves me. I hate to say this but we really are an almost perfect couple. He's seen the worst parts of me and he still loves me. In...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I know I picked the right guy to marry?

I'm not engaged yet, but I have a feeling it's coming soon. I feel so strongly for my boyfriend, and now that we've lived together for a few months I feel confident that I'd say yes if he asked me to marry him. But how...

Anonymous

(30-35)