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here's my dilemma. Girls always say how attractive confidence is in a man. But matter of fact is, when a girl goes out, she is sorrounded by confident men. A girl is being asked out and talked to by confident men. She almost always only dates confident men. When she is in a club, she is mostly only approached by confident men. In social gatherings, clubs, bars, parties, there are more confident men than insecure ones.

My question is not if confidence is still attractive. My question is, if confidence is a little bit less impressive because of what i said above.

I noticed when i wear my nicer looking clothes at a bar/club more girls check me out. I feel like when I wear more more basic looking clothes I have a lower success rate approaching girls. Does it really make a difference or might this just be a coincidence?