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I went out on 2 dates with a guy I met from Bumble. They went pretty smoothly, not great but not horrible. I'm physically attracted to him but emotionally not at all. I went back to his place on the second date to just hang and 'watch a movie'. I was ready to mess around some and maybe hookup, but all he did was cuddle a bit and hold my hand. I was a little confused because I was expecting more. He didn't make any other moves or advances. The next day I texted him to say thanks for dinner and his reply was concise and seemed a little forced. So, I didn't text back just because I didn't want to be a nuisance. Next day I'm looking through bumble and our conversation dissapeared. Generally, this means he either blocked or unmatched me. I was a little dissapointed because I was planning on texting him and explaining that I wanted a casual, no-commitment type of deal between us. Now though I feel like I lost my chance at a decent no strings attached relationship. Would it still be worth a shot to shoot him a text letting him know what I want or would that be ridiculously desperate?