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She broke up said I used her said I hurt her etc said I was moody would snap on her. bottom line is that she was choosing her family over me then switched last minute. I never treated her like a woman or anything just had sex and conversations here and there would occasionally ask how things are going on a hold ay or something. She was nuts about me and always seemed t be the victim. Anyways she ended it. I acted kind of mad and then I said alright this is it. She called me next day crying then I acted cool and I guess rejected her when she asked for me back.

I called her 2 days later asking how she is because she was kind of unclear and I didn't know if if we still had a chance. Shestonewalled me acted like a bitch and said im wirh my friends not at he crying. Said Im not getting the reaction I wanted. I blew up.. I said I'm done with these mind games out of patience.. big ol fight. somwthing bad happened in my life and she messaged me a couple days later asking if I wanted the bday gift I got her back. I told her what happened and asked if we are done. She confirmed said this is just bad timing. I waited a month she was stalking me on social media and I'm pretty sure she thinks I was having sex with someone else already but never got brought up. I messaged her saying I need to talk about a couple background investigators talking to her for my new government job and I wanted to talk to her too. I ended up dealing with the business before. She seemed pissed off and emotional.

Went on a rant on how much I hurt her etc.. never showed her aby love at all. She feels used. I apologized I got emotional on the verge of crying but never like cried tears or anything. Could hear it in my voice and see my face trembling. I told her I want her and she said it's too late too much damage done. I left it at that didn't beg but asked to stay in contact talk her and there she ended contact. I left her a letter at her work with flowers just apologiz

Long story short: My ex and I were in a long-distance relationship that ended after close-to 4 years. It was a nasty ending, only because the distance got to both of our heads and we both became paranoid of cheating (which she admitted to a couple months after the breakup). We were each other's first loves, and we knew if it wasn't for the distance we could have stayed together forever.

After the breakup, there was a solid year and a half of no-contact with the exception of her sending me a birthday text (which was 3 days late and I never responded to); and I sent her a text months later when I heard her grandfather was sick to say I was sorry to hear about him not doing well (he was a role model and mentor to me). When her birthday rolled around I sent her a birthday text to "repay the favor" and actually hoped she wouldn't respond like I didn't when she texted me, but she did respond and informed me that she was home from college for a semester, and that she wasn't doing very well. It was a short conversation but every three weeks or so leading up to now I get random texts from her, hinting that she would like to grab coffee or lunch and catch up (some actually saying that) but then she dissapears for another three weeks and it never happens. Im hoping that she either shows interest and follows through, but more so that she dissapears for good because I dont want this on my mind anymore.

A couple months after we broke up, I wrote her a letter (mainly for my own closure) just letting her know that I forgive her for what happened, that she meant a lot to me, and how much I learned through the good and bad times about life and myself.

So the questions is, if she ends up dissapearing for good, do I send her this letter, or just let it "lay to rest"? I have no intention of getting back with her, but I also want her to know my current feelings since they hace not changed since I wrote the letter.

I am asking girls whether they like receving love correspondence these days? Guys can chime in too...do you send your woman notes or letters telling them how much you care and appreciate them?

For example, I wrote the following to my gf while I was away for the week on business:

Hi Gorgeous,

I am really sorry for getting called away this week, I was so looking forward to spending it together! The time seems to be going by very slowly, and I cant' wait to be back home...to hold you close to me, feel your warmth, and kiss your soft lips. Each time I have to leave, it makes me realize how much I care for you...how much I love you, and how much I hate saying good-bye. I look forward to Friday , when I can see your beauty, touch your face, envelope you in my arms, and just hug you for hours. I will make it up to you this weekend! Until then I will just lie here in my hotel, thinking of what it would be like...

Missing You Dearly,
Me

I know pretty sappy....but I like to express myself to her. Is this kind of stuff over the top?