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recently i joined a theater production class for my college and there's this really attractive girl in my class she really really cute haha and goofy we have talking during practice sometimes but not like she does with the other guys cause she knows them im kind of like the new guy cause they all have done performances before. but i think or at least hoping this girl has a thing for me during our interactions together she has teased me jokingly like she for one i would make little jokes during practice and she would like awkwardly kinda slowly push hit my shoulder with saying my name your so funny. I've seen her giving me the up and down sometimes and she always has snarly remarks towards me like this time during practice everyone had seats except this girl and i asked her if she wanted my seat and the girl said thank you but the cute girl said syke he's a jerk he's just giving you the chair cause he has to get up to do something soon i knew she was joking obviously but its still weird. whenever we talk she not really that loud or talkative that is with everyone else we all joke around with each other. when we were all backstage waiting for our part to go on stage she handed me a taco sause package that was laying around she was playing with and it said "Will you marry me" i jokingly respond after class, but you won't know ill keep spontaneous. and she kinda just like got quite looked away and back and nodding. and then later showed me a picture of instagram photo of a funny meme i dont remember what it was about but yea haha what do you guys think?

There is a friend of mine and we know each other from last 6 years, we were on talking basis intermittently for first 3 years. I told her that I love her around 2 years back, but she said "No" and said she felt bad saying this for me, but she didn't think about me this way. I did this 2-3 times in last 2 years.

but I kept on talking even after those rebuttals, because I can't get my mind away from her.

This year I tried to make my heart strong and I stopped talking to her, for 3-4 months but I again fell to my weak heart and called her. We were on good talking terms after that and she told me that she missed me too and somewhere knew that I was angry on her. Her birthday came in those 4 months and she even messaged me on FB why I am not wishing her.

Yesterday in the night I was again talking to her and suddenly the topic of my love for her came into discussion, I told her again that how much I love her and how her happiness means everything for me. She told me that she can't as she is in love with someone else(similar case). she is stupid and if she was practical enough she would have said yes to me a long time back.

She told me she can't do it right now and maybe we should move ahead with time to see what happens..

I am f****d up in head because of this as every time I meet a girl I start comparing her to my friend, and she wins :(

Please suggest what should I do.

Myself -:

I am a decent looking guy, who has improved drastically in last 4 years. and I look and talk better than I used to look when I first met her. I am doing wonderfully professionaly with a stable job and a good package.

We all know that the strereotype of males in fashion is mainly, guys that are not straight. The reason why I ask this question is...I am one of those guys highlighted in the title of this question.

When I look at women, I just don't look at how her facial features and body features look...I look at her actual ensemble (makeup, clothing, accessories, shoes, hair, etc.) herself and how it's put together.

I have an interest in observing female fashion and how the clothing, makeup and accessories are constructed and used in combination, as well as how certain types of clothes, makeup and jewelry flatter different bodytypes and heights.

When I shop and I come across womens' accessories, I can imagine how they would look on certain builds / complexions of woman and how they can mesh with other fashion items.

In fact, I help out the women in my family, female friends, and my girlfriends with putting ensembles together (clothes, shoes, makeup, accessories, hairstyle), and I did so voluntarily instead of grudgingly like a lot of my fellow males do. :-P

When it comes to actually approaching females, I genuinely compliment their entire "fashion package" and how well its put together (and I usually get flattered replies back). I also learned during my time as an insurance agent that I get more warm feedback from female prospects than male prospects...which is useful for if I truly wanted to pursue a career in womens' fashion.

...and yes, I have been asked if I was "not straight" before. So I adjusted my approach towards "females of interest" to be extra-bold to avoid confusion! :-P

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Guys and girls, what is your initial impression about a straight male being genuinely into womens' fashion?

Vote and reply as much as you like, sharing examples and observations.