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So one Sunday afternoon after a football game, I hugged my boyfriend and left to go to my car. It had just finished raining too. Ground was damp and stuff. I turned on the car and blasted the radio. My phone rang. Luckily I heard it over the music. My friend called me and told me she was watching my boyfriend kissing another girl. At that very moment I was so angry. Like to the point of tears. This wasn't the first time. I thought we got passed this bump in our lives but I guess not. So I waited outside until it got dark. He came from around the bleachers. I guess done talking or making out and I just hit him with the car and I got the fuck out of their. I knew he wasn't dead but I feel so bad.

He was moving when I turned the car around but he didn't see me. His parents called my phone but I haven't answered. I hate myself for this. But it felt normal at the time.

he's probably at the hospital right now. And Prom is coming up. Last time this happened I had to throw a bucket of soap at him and he was allergic to the lavender.

When I was 19 I broke up with my first long term boyfriend. He was 22. That was in 2009.

I know I hurt him a lot but the reality was that for me, after a year I wasn't happy, he was graduating and there was no where for the relationship to go. So I broke up. I moved on. I established distance.

Since I went to school out of state we never were geographically close and there wasn't much chance of contact afterwards.

But two years ago he messaged me talking about some interest he remembered me having. I didn't answer. I felt what was the point?

Now six years after we broke up he has messaged me twice this week. The first one was simply " if you get this call me." Then his phone number

This morning it's "smh [shaking my head]. Why do you hate me so much? ..." (I haven't opened the message only checked the preview)

Do I reply to him and tell him I'm not interested? I want him to be well and be happy but we live hundred of miles away. Its not my fault if he's unhappy with his situation. And I don't want to take responsibility for his feelings. I feel like there's nothing we have to talk about and I don't want to feign interest in someone I've moved on from or open the doors for any false hope. I don't want to be the bad guy again and tell someone I don't love them and I don't want to be their friend.

Do I reply or do I keep ignoring?