Search Results: scared of commitment

Why are men scared of commitment?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys seem to become very scared of me when ever they get real feelings for me and we're not in a relationship. Why? Is it a normal reaction?

It's all okay as long as they're not truly in love with me. We might see each other, hang out, spend time together and have a good time. But then they fall for me and everything falls apart. And it's not like they're...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I HATE MEN SO MUCH that I need help! What can I do to regain trust again?

1. When a guy ask me out I assume he wants more 2. I get defensive quick, my first thought is cheating, failure or abandonment 3. I can talk openly and have deep conversation, but if a guy shows interest in a romantic...

Anonymous

(30-35)

1. When a guy ask me out I assume he wants more 2. I get defensive quick, my first thought is cheating, failure or abandonment 3. I can talk openly and have deep conversation, but

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Everytime I date a guy I get anxious... help?

Last year, I dated this horrible guy. He was ugly and refused to shave his pedo mustache. He didn't know a thing about dating, made my friends uncomfortable, and was almost a neonazi. I hated him, so how did we end up in...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why do women seek commitment, but then when a man is willing to commit to them, they get scared?

Ok so obviously this doesn't apply to all women, so if you could please save the "not me" answers. And I know it applies to men too, but I am a guy and I don't date guys lol, so I want to know what scares women. Let's say...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why Men Disappear

If someone disappears on you, they'd better stay disappeared. You meet a man, you two have excellent chemistry and everything is going in the right direction. And then... He just disappears from your life! You have...

Desconhecida

Editor Age: 39

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Should I stay friends with an ex who wants to be single forever?

My ex wants to keep seeing me still after 2 years apart, but doesn't think he could ever go out with anyone properly when I asked why we broke up. He says he likes being with me and it's not about sex. He is scared of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Need advice from girls with Borderline Personality Disorder or Guys with partners who have the condition?

I met a girl 4 months ago and it took less than a month before we fell in love with each other, that is 100% solid. But she has Borderline Personality Disorder, has come out of a 10 year abusive relationship and has...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Can You Really Be Yourself?

I’ve seen a lot of topics on here about men doing the chasing and why don’t women make more of an effort. Well there’s always been this paranoid thought that women are just in it to marry. Women from a young age are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My ex is scared of commitment but wants to still see me. What to do?

We broke up 2 years ago but have kept in touch. We slept together on & off & he hasn't dated. He has serious issues with communication & commitment, maybe because of issues growing up where his dad cheated on his mum &...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get over fear of commitment?

I've been seeing this guy for two months now, and we're in a situation somewhere in between fwb's and a relationship. He would like a relationship. I like him a lot, miss him instantly after I left his place, am always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he really care about me or am I just imagining it? What’s with the mind games?

There’s a boy I’ve been talking on and off with for 10 months now (let’s call him A). One of our mutual friends set us up because she knew he was interested in me, and frankly I always thought he was too cool to for me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to tell a guy that I want to spend more time with him and not scare him away?

So I've been hanging out with this guy for some time now, we slept together several times but nothing serious. He's soon going back to his country so it's pretty clear that there can't be anything serious between us. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he delete me on every social media? Was it really because he didn’t want to commit? Or because of something else?

I was talking to a guy, long story short he lead me on said he didn’t want to commit. Okay... cool. A few weeks later, we texted he apologized for whatever reason, then maybe a week or two later, he texted me asking me to...

Kc_jackson

Xper 4 Age: 30

Can two people love each other long distance if?

They've never had a phone call or video chatted. Mere voice notes don't really count as verbal interaction for me... He says he doesn't call because he knows I have anxiety (which is true) / doesn't want to scare me......

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do people that have a fear of commitment always get relationships but people that don't fall by the wayside?

Just noticing this I like my peers who arn't scared of committing to a single woman really struggle to find dates meanwhile the guys and gals who will jump ship at the first sign of commitment are swimming in a sea of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I show her I truly care about her when she is scared of commitment?

She admitted her feelings to me and wants to be with me but is scared.. How do I show her that my feeling toward her won't change and that I care for her.

den1219

Xper 6 Age: 31