Search Results: casual flings

There is a woman who I work with that I find very attractive. She is 45, I am 30. We are both very fit and I find her downright sexy. I want to create some wild hot passion with her, but keep it purely physical in nature. I catch her staring at me and she just has a look about her when speak that makes me feel its possible, but I dnt want her to feel uncomfortable around me if she is not intersted. Advice please?

Before getting married a few years ago my wife and i agreed that we could each have one last fling before commitment. To ensure that it was purely physical/casual it was agreed that we would only do this via brothels/call girls/escorts.

So i went to a local massage parlor and had my fling with one of the girls in there. It was fun but over within an hour and very impersonal. I took a very purposeful approach of it being very casual. The total cost of this was $150.

My wife though spent an excessive amount of time researching available male escorts and ended up hiring one for the entire night. She booked a room in a hilton hotel and went out for a meal before hand. From sneaking a look on her computer i know that the escort she met was a well endowed athlete type that was probably in the top price bracket. Now i'm not particularly jealous of the physical side of it but the cost of her 'fling' came in over $1500 and was just obviously a far better experience than mine.

She jokes about it and says that it's only because women are different/more fussy. She says we both were mature enough to treat it as just a bit of pre-marriage fun and nothing more which is kind of true.

But i can't help but think i could have had a better experience myself instead of the 'cheaper' experience it was. It does bother me a bit that i have missed an opportunity but she was able to enjoy herself to the max.

I would just like to know whether others think this was fair or whether i'm right in thinking it was very unfair. The answers one way or another may help me move on...

Thanks.