Search Results: emotionally distant

Not really interested in dating or relationships, is this normal/healthy?

Hello G@G, After finishing school and being thrust into the real world I've been pondering why I have so many excuses for not wanting a romantic relationship right now, as well as into the near future. To me, the...

lilaqua

Yoda Age: 26

My boyfriend takes me for granted and I don't feel like his girlfriend anymore. why is he being like this?

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and its been a rollercoaster. we have had 2 breaks but they literally only lasted a month then we got back together again. we live together and when we got back together...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do men usually come back after the girl has initiated breakup?

I broke up with my boyfriend because he was emotionally unavailable. I put in all the effort and he felt like contacting me or hanging out when he wanted to. The relationship was getting serious. I met his daughter and...

littleree

Xper 4 Age: 40

My ex boyfriend is sometimes a bit distant /emotionally guarded but sometimes close/friendly/funny. Why is that?

Sometimes I feel that he is emotionally guarded when talking to me, but sometimes he is friendly and caring. We are trying to be friends and this confused me. Does he still has feelings or he just wanna keep some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, How Do I Get My Ex Back?

i am haley, i am seventeen years old. i realize that many of you reading may think that i am way too young for this shit and i understand where you're coming from but i have come to the realization that i can maintain a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do I do with my ex?

hey, my name is brianna, i am fifteen years old. i met a guy three months ago and we started talking as friends for about a month. then we started dating and we maintained a relationship for about two months. he broke up...

briannagaria

Xper 2 Age: 23

Abusive/weird behavior husband?

For the past few weeks, every weekend when my husband doesn't work, hed drink, act out, and yes, abuse me. However, he remembers everything. The next day, hed act all loving and affectionate to me, telling me he loves me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I good enough for him?

I have been dating this guy for 2 years, he's been very supportive and a great guy to be around with. I really love him and sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He’s distant with me often and that's when I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does your ex boyfriend looking at you have any significance?

(Longish story, sorry!! Please read) My ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. It was a short but full relationship, lasting only 2 months. I was a new girl at a small school and he immediately began talking to me....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I expect a break-up? Cheating?

I am pregnant and my partner of 2 years and I are on a break after months of non-stop fighting and one massive blowup. He left for a trip and I am supposed to follow and meet him there in a week for his birthday, but we...

michalola

Xper 4 Age: 42

I'm terrified of falling in love or having someone fall in love with me?

Just seeing how people in relationships are and the pain and suffering along with mood swings etc it just terrifies me that someone is capable of making me feel that way. I've had feelings for guys before and it used to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my ex secretly miss me and want me, but is too depressed to engage in a relationship?

My ex (as of a week lol) tries to add me on Snapchat because I have him blocked on everything else. I can get messages even if you aren't my friend on Snapchat, he sends me videos of his new pet and all the things he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

He's cold and I'm a flirt... Help?

My crush is not super talkative&outgoing&flirtatious, and can seem emotionally distant. He also doesn't text a lot so the texting option is gone. Me on the other hand am kind of the casual flirt with guys but when it...

victoriameliegray

Xper 6 Age: 23

I sent her way too many texts and I've HUMILIATED MYSELF! Should I block her?

Okay, so, I got into an online relationship with this girl who is mutual friends on facebook from England okay? Yeah, it started out great because we video called every few days and had perfect chemistry. I kept warning...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She knows all my insecurities after 1 week of me having a breakdown. I now want to breakup because she won't see me as masculine anymore?

Before our relationship even began, we had a long discussion about "Traditional values". So if you're a feminist, don't bother replying. Both of us, being Christian, talked about what we want in relationships. I like to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Cushioning: Effects, Defects and Side Effects!

Hello and welcome everyone! In this take, I'll talk bout cushioning: the latest dating trend which is just a result of our fear of heartbreak. So what actually is cushioning? According to the Urban Dictionary, cushioning...

Halucinator

Editor Age: 24

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Telling him about self-harm.. I can’t do it and I know I need to?

I have recently started seeing this man. He is a sweetheart. I think he has the capacity to be a great man, as it pertains to me. However I have stayed emotionally distant because I wasn’t ready to talk about my self...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why won't he lie to me so I can let him go?

We met when he was in town for summer, we decided to continue our relationship in long distance. It was going well in the beginning even though the long distance thing was rough, until I found out that he was married...

vanessious

Xper 3 Age: 33