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Trying to keep it short: I had a car wreck over a week ago. Totaled the car, was hospitalized and etc...Well, I don't even remember, but apparently when I woke up from being unconscious, I texted my him about being in the wreck. I then, apparently lost consciousness again and woke up in the ambulance. He was acting weird after the wreck..being distant and unresponsive. A few days later, he said he thinks the long distance hit home for him and he doesn't think he can do it anymore. He has been cheated on before by his ex whom slept with all of his friends. And, he is REALLY insecure. I just don't know why he is just throwing us away. He hasn't really even given us a chance. We met online through a game! And, we became friends..which led to having very deep feelings for one another. We have a lot in common as well..which led to the feelings.

Background: He lives in the UK and I live in the US. The day before the wreck, he told me when I came down to see him, he was going to buy me a ring so that everybody would know that I was his...He told me he loved me..He gave me all his bank info to get money for the flight and we were even looking at apartments to live together.

I am contemplating whether to just forget him altogether, or to keep trying. Every time I speak to him, he says he is just scared, got cold feet, and always pushes people away that is why he has been single for 2 years.

Guys what do you think? And, girls, have you been through this?

Why would another girl act differently once her ex boyfriend comes around? Like distant towards me, her whole demeanor changes. We are friends. She is bi and I'm straight and at times she will say things to me on the low. She gives compliments and etc. She says she wants to be with him, we talk often but the minute he comes around she becomes distant. Like certain things she is almost ashamed to tell me that he came for Valentines. I found out her ex thinks I'm a guy and I'm like how is that she says she doesn't know. She mentions me to him often. I'm wondering if she likes me. HELP ME UNDERSTAND