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Hi Ladies,

So here's the deal. I've been working for a major lingerie brand for about two years now and am currently being mentored into a management position. I had been single for about a year before that due to me moving across the country and she didn't want to deal with the distance.

So since I started working there, whenever where we work comes up on a date or when a woman asks about it, they have a few reactions. Firstly they don't believe me as for some reason "men aren't allowed to work in a place like that," even though it would be sexist to not allow me to work there, haha. These are in no particular order:

They think I'm gay

They think I'm weird

They ask me what my discount is and if I could get them some stuff using it and they would pay me back. (yes this happens, and sadly quite often, even on a date)

I even understand that it can be intimidating to date a guy who works there as I do work pretty much exclusively with women as well as that women are the large majority of my customer base.

So I am a masculine guy, I work out multiple times a week, train in martial arts, enjoy action flicks, etc. I just happen to be really good with fashion, colors, designs, matching, complimenting items, perfumes, customer service, etc.

This is a great career for me, the company is really pushing me to grow in their company as they expand and are offering me a great benefits package and salary once I complete the mentoring program. The one downside it seems is that it is the plague on my love life. I even asked some of the other managers (they are all female at my store) and they've known straight men who do what I do but they tend to remain single by and large for quite a while until they either hit corporate level or quit the company.

So what gives? Care to explain your opinion on dating a guy in such a situation and why women seem to be obsessed with getting my discount but not my heart, or heck, even into my pants?

OK the other day me and the girl I like where texting back and forth until like 3am.. But it was kinda the same stuff over and over and not really flirty or fun and I was getting tired so I texted this just as a joke cause..

"OK its getting late and I'm getting a little tied so unless you want to start talking about your self.. Good night... Besides I might ask something I'll regret later something... Like what your wearing... So Id better say good night.."

Her responds

"purple and green"

My responds after several smiley face text was this

"lol :) that was just a joke... I didn't expect you to actually answer it..

Besides it was more of a question of what color and what ""items""

So again good night"

Her responds

"purple shirt and pants.. Green leggings.. "

Again it was a joke so I didn't expect her to keep this conversation going.. I don't know if this girl likes me so I wasn't ready for her answers and so I ended this conversation telling her she shouldn't answer those types of questions..

Later she told me in person she only answered it because I asked her.. And no other reason..

How should I take this..?

Does she like me or do girls usually answer these questions at 3am in the morning..? There wasn't really any mention of a bra or panties so it wasn't really sexual.. Or was it.. I'm not sure what leggings are..

Shes usually really shy and I can never get her to talk about her self so I really wasn't sure how to take this let alone expecting it