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I told my significant other I was going to go visit our dogs and he replied "I'll see ya when you get back." Mind you, he always come with. I ended up asking why he wasn't going and he relied saying he didn't feel good. Later on in the night he comes and says he's going to go to his job and help his manager because she messaged needing help (it's his day off) i dont particularly like his boss because i watched her flirt with him in front on me because she didn't know who i was. But i dont make too big of a deal because it is his job. I'm just not understanding why he said he didn't feel like going with me yet he decided to go ahead and work when he didn't have to.

He acted jealous cause i didn't tell him who im texting. He also keeps like touching me lightly on my side or upper arm as if he's saying hi. I don't know why. And he also expresses posessiveness like he gets irritsted over small things i do or dont do at times (it seems he misunderstands me but he sees after usually that im not trying to do anything to make him mad on purpose then he is in a good mood again).

I don't know if he likes me or he thinks im a slut and I'd just go bang him or whatever. I need a mans perspective i guess

by this i mean including not lusting over and/or flirting with other people. its just every guy i know who does seem to truly love their partners, still end up giving attention or showing attraction towards other people. i get that we can still be attracted with other people who isn't our partner, but we dont really have to show that we are attracted with them, do we?