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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year
We do have our ups and downs but he has never cheated on me
I would know if a guy is cheating coz my ex did so i would know the signs..
But anyway.. my boyfriend has been training at gym for 5 years and has been improving ever since. He used to be soo skinny but now he's quite built
He has been focusing on training at gym a lot lately
He goes to gym 5 or 6 nights a week
He tells me his plans about it for future
This is our conversation:
Him - when im more ripped, im going to go for photoshoots. I've always wanted to. And when I get those photos, I will upload them on instagram and will put my profile on public. Oh and im telling u in advance, im going to have shirtless photos too.
Me - why? To get attention from other girls?
Him - wtf? No.. im doing it for myself. And i want to motivate people. Im not doing it for women.
Me - it just shows you want other girls to pursue you
Him - well they might but im not going to do anything about it and i can't anyway. Its not like im going to go with them.. I have you already. I dont got time for 2 girls anyway. I have shit to do. Stop being insecure. Im doing this for myself, for me to see my progression overtime and for other people to see what I've become from years ago.
Am i right to be worried about this?
Do u think im right that he wants to do this so he gets attention from other girls? Or does he sound genuine about it?
Some girls are real thirsty AF so thats why im just thinking of stuff like other pretty girls will try to get with him etc
Or is this my insecurity?
My boyfriend is quite good looking so... I don't know

So first off, me and my boyfriend been together for over a year
Few weeks back we have been going through some ups and downs.. arguments and all.. which led to a break up last week
But we got back together 2 days later
Ever since we got back together, its been quite good now.. we dont argue anymore and he's still affectionate towards me, still tries to spend time with me often and still calls me everyday to talk and check up on me as usual
So anyway, i went on his facebook profile today (coz I was bored)
And i saw that he still has a picture of us BUT he put it on private (only i can see it, not his friends)
Before all his friends can see it but i realized he changed it to private
And also statuses that he tags me on (he put them on private too)
So I got furious and paranoid and thinking he's cheating on me and that he doesn't want anyone to know that we are back together
I called him and this was our conversation:
Me - do you have someone else?
Him - wtf? No. Why would u say that?
Me - why is our picture on your facebook private then?
Him - what? No its not
Me - yes it is. Go check
Him - ok let me check... oh right custom. Maybe coz we broke up back then but okay, I will put it on public now. You happy now?
Me - are u sure you dont have any other girl?
Him - what? Man no i dont. If i did, i wouldn't spend time talking to you, seeing you. I would be with her. I have nothing to hide.
Me - ok
Him - anything else? Coz i dont want you talking shit about this again when we see each other on the weekend. I have nothing to hide. You can see my phone, i dont care. We can swap phones, whatever. I dont have anyone else ok. I dont even have time for 2 girls anyway so wth. Just dont be so insecure.
Me - ok whatever
Him - is that all? Can i go back to work now?
Me - yeah okay
Him - can't believe you called just for that *laughs* you're funny
Me - I got cheated on before by ex.. so ofcourse im paranoid!
Him -yeh i know.. anyway gotta go to work.. bye babe, love you
Am i overreacting?

incompatible as in they have different takes on almost everything:
one likes going out while the other likes staying in
one likes pda while the other doesn't even want to hold hands in public
one wants the relationship to be private while the other doesn't want to be hidden
one has a very bad family and wants to have a listening ear but the other can't be a listening ear because he's often too busy to even text her
one wants to text often but the other doesn't like to text
one is too insecure while the other hates having to reassure her

the list goes on and on. yeah that's my boyfriend and i. we are very incompatible in many ways. and thus, one of us have to compromise - mostly i keep it in and sacrifice because im afraid to tell him about it and i dont think it will work. for example, he doesn't want to hold my hands in public because he wants to keep it private. it hurts my feelings and i want to tell him i dont like it but i feel like he has his reasons so i shouldn't force him + im not good enough to force him to change. i really like him a lot and he makes me happy. but sometimes these differences make me feel miserable and want to break up. i feel alone in this rs sometimes bcos he texts me like 10 texts a day. what should i do?