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I have made multiple multiple questions about this situation and I just want to put a final end on getting peoples opinions opinions on it. It will really help me.
- I have known this laid back guy for 1.5 years we met online
- at the beginning things were good, we were flirting/ making sexual jokes (I went along with it)
- I was hesitant to meet him because I thought he wanted sex, I lead him on for awhile when it came to meeting up
- he gave me multiple chances with giving things a try
- we have argued a lot through out
- on our first date, he paid, it was quiet, got to know him a bit, made out with him. After our first date his answers on how it went was vague.
- after our first date shortly after I found out he hooked up with a girl, he told me he thought I wasn't serious.
- he asked me randomly to be his girlfriend in the summer time and we kind of left it.
- we tried to give things a go and then I got cold feet.
- when we weren't talking and i was going out with a guy he messaged me asking how my "bf" was
- we talked a lot about our past and how he told me he wanted to be with me and that he liked me. I told him the same. He told me a couple times he wanted to move on but I wanted him to give me one last chance. Anyways we went on our second date, I paid, got no thank you. We had nothing in common. We did make things official before our second date. After our second date he said it was fun, but he felt nothing.. ( he did told me he was in the mood during our date) He then told me after that we just went on 2 dates, that I was weird etc..

Been talking to him over a year
Met him online
First date a few months ago
Long story short had things happen
We decide to move forward and give things a try

Why of course you did! ... and if you didn't, here is everything you ever wanted to know about "National Men Make Dinner Day" and more! ...

Date When Celebrated : First Thursday in November

National Men Make Dinner Day was created for two reasons. First, it is to give the ladies a break from the cooking chores. Secondly, it seeks to encourage men who do not cook, to learn to cook, beginning by making a meal on this day. Of course, even men who do cook, should celebrate this day by making a meal.

It is also called Make Your Wife Dinner Day.

Okay guys, be a sport. Give the ladies in your life a break. Set them in their favorite chair in the living room, put a glass of wine in their hands, and tune the Tv to their favorite "Chick Flick". Then, grab a beer, find a recipe and make dinner all by yourself!

Here are a few Do's and Don'ts for making the meal:

The Golden Rule: Women can not assist in the meal. Rookie male cooks need to do it all by themselves, to gain a sense of accomplishment.
No take out or prepared foods are allowed
No grilling. After all, you've been telling yourself for years, that grilling is Man's turf.
If you've never cooked before, make it simple. If you like to cook, do something challenging.
Prepare something that the ladies will like.
The meal must include a dessert. May we suggest easy to make jello? Add a dollop of whipped cream and a cherry.
You must clean up all the pots pans and mixing bowls used in preparing the meal.
Why Should Men Cook Today?

Because you love your wife or partner.
To broaden your horizon and skill set.
To score points!

Origin of Men Make Dinner Day:

The creators of this day is not known. Nor, is the date when it originated. Our research suggest that this special day may have originated fairly recently.

There are no Presidential or Congressional proclamations making this an official "National" day.

OK, now go find that cooking apron guys and show her how it's done!! You can do it!!