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Bear with me I tend to be long-winded. Basically, I'm confused about whether or not this guy likes me, & I don't know what to do, so I need some advice...I'm gonna list some random things he does & you can come to your own conclusions...

*He's MY best friend, but he has never referred to me as HIS best friend.

*He likes to ask me questions a lot to get to know me better & to get me talking.

*He shares a lot of really deep things with me when we're alone...like personal stuff about his family & such.

*He once told me he wants to hear every word I can say, need to say, & even the things I keep quiet about. He has kept to his word on this because he always asks me what I have been up to & wants to hear even the most insignificant details of what's been going on in my life.

*Last time I hung out with him alone we were together for nearly 6 hours. We talked & sometimes were just quiet, but we were together. I’ve told him before that even when we’re not saying anything I like to be with him & so he doesn’t force me to talk or anything. He later said that although I had spoken very little I had said a lot.

*I go to school far away so ^that^ night was the last time I saw him before I went back. It was only going to be 3 weeks apart this time (as opposed to three months) but he said that those last few weeks would feel like the longest. He genuinely looked heartbroken that I had to leave. He always says he hates that I go to school so far away instead of at home.

*When I got back though, he didn’t really seem like he had missed me that much. He didn’t give me an intense, bone-crushing hug like he usually does when I’m away…which I understand because I wasn’t away for too long.

*I made him a mix CD for his birthday, & among the lyrics he said had “spoken” to him were:

-“I miss all the little things. I never thought that they’d mean everything to me.”

-“Baby, I’m still missing you.”

-“When you feel like being quiet, when you need to speak your mind, I will listen”

“You make me smile like the sun……Just the thought of you can drive me wild. Oh you make me smile.”

*At a get-together, his brother saved him a seat next to me when we sat down to eat but he sat somewhere else instead. He later apologized to me & said that he was keeping somebody else company because they were all alone.

*Last time I finally got to talk to him but had to leave quickly & he complained that every time he finally gets the chance to talk to me, I have to leave. Then he offered to at least walk me to my car.

*Idk if I imagine it but he’s very careful about any physical contact with me most of the time. It just seems that he avoids it.

*I think he got jealous the other day because I hugged his brother...he just kinda walked off (not angrily, but he left until I went to get him).

*There are some people who seem to think it’s obvious we like each other but I just don’t see it. My mom thinks he likes me but she doesn’t realize I like him.