Search Results: scared of getting in a relationship

How would you feel dating a girl who had self harm scars from when she was younger?

I basically hurt myself pretty badly when I was only 14 and I now have about 20+ raised white scars on my arm. I've never done it since. I just went through a lot when I was younger and I was too young to deal with things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will you help this make sense?

I was talking to this guy in June for a couple WEEKS over the internet. We have never met. He started to dry message so I just forgot about him. I moved in August and let him know, but he still wasn't interested. I went...

usedaname

Xper 4 Age: 41

Help me anyone please?

so last year i dated this boy. i was 15 and he was 14. i was his first girlfriend and his first kiss. we were known as "eachothers" for 6 months even if we weren't dating. we dated 2 times in those 6 months but i broke up...

Monkey0303

Xper 3 Age: 22

( Please read It All) Is it okay if I asked my boyfriend's friend if he ever talk about me?

So I met this guy online, we have been talking and was both interested in music. So after getting close through texting, he told me about himself, then we became intimate with each other. He's a really busy guy coz he's...

BhaniLovesMusic

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl I genuinely care about is getting a little distant, I need help reassuring her because what i've been doing isn't working, any advice?

I'm not good at TL;DR's but TL;DR: Girl I've been talking to for over a month has recently been getting a little distant, but still giving me mixed signals that she likes me but she's genuinely scared because of her...

admelein

Xper 5 Age: 29

What should I do with a guy who likes me but is afraid to get hurt?

There’s a guy I went on a date with about two months ago, but in the end we decided to become friends. We met up again last night for his birthday event, and I noticed he was talking to my brother at some point. I asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I believe him or is this a cop out?

I started talking to this guy early last month. We really hit it off and although it’s long distance we’ve been seeing each other every weekend. He wanted to meet my dad so I took him to have dinner together. He has let...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to handle a girl that is not ready for a relationship?

There is this girl that I have been talking to for the last 6 months. She actually moved back to my area from across the country so that we can be closer and so she can get away from her ex. She was with him for 5 years...

JV219

Xper 3 Age: 36

Tips for transition from friends to couple?

I like my friend a lot and I get a feel that he’s flirting sometimes too. In a call with all us friends, he brought up how he was scared of ruining friendships by getting into relationships with friends but the girls...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My high school sweetheart wants another chance HELP?

We were 17 last we saw each other & madly in love. A bad choice of friends on his part sent him down a bad road which kept us apart ultimately. Fast forward 20 some years And he finds me on Facebook. We are both separated...

Jenskye

Xper 3 Age: 52

I cut myself in front of him and I feel so embarrassed about it?

I suffer with a lot of anxiety and stress and depression and BPD and i have only just started getting diagnosed so i’m just starting therapy soon. I’ve been talking to a guy who is still talking to his ex and basically me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Sometime letting someone go is the right choice. (My Story)

Before I tell you why I let this girl go I have to tell you what this girl meant to me. She wasn't like anyone else I had might. She balances my life. She gives me a purpose. When times are rough just knowing that I get...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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How can I support my boyfriend through depression?

We have been together for 4.5 years, and we are in an LDR until I finish my nursing degree. He has extreme mood swings that can be hard to deal with. I would say the last 6 months he has been consistently negative, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you often dream about your exes?

I get sick of seeing those hoes tbh lol. The ones of my first ex is always about him making me date him again. The one this weekend was crazy. I was happy to be with him. I mean I guess i was always happy with him in...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Is it love, or is it something else?

My now Ex partner and I are still talking/hooking up but because of the situations that led to our breakup our respective family members despise both of us to the point where she has to lie and sneak out to come see me or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Any good advice for a long distance relationship?

I’m in a long distance relationship his (his 23 I’m 21) an amazing guy, I love him so much and we have our problems... just like everyone does, it’s not a perfect relationship but I feel like his the one and I feel like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why my friends with benefits being distant? Does he still like me and afraid or other reason?

We actually been in a relationship for 1 year plus and broke up for months and try to rekindle again. We both like each other but we did not make it official because we both scared of the same mistake and will lead to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why my friends with benefits being distant?

Anonymous

(25-29)