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So I turned 18 fairly resonantly and never had a real relationship even though I really wanted one for SO SO LONG. I’m shy and introverted though and only have a few close friends and that’s because of social anxiety due to severe bullying back when I was younger and never fitting in with others at school. Anyway at this point I’d give absolutely anything just to have a pretty girl to wrap her in my arms, snuggle with, talk to about my day, kiss her, have an intercourse with her (if she’s comfortable with it of course) etc. People say I have so much love and empathy in my heart waiting to be passed on to others but at the present moment only people I can think of giving it to are pretty girls as they are my #1 Priority and I’d do anything I can to make a girl feel loved but if I find her and the intensity is released on only focusing on girls then yes I’ll give it to other people too. The thought of so many other people YOUNGER than me being able to go a lot farther in terms of being sexually active and stuff makes me so depressed, feel so low and want to self harm. Sometimes I think of giving myself a 3rd degree burn (please don’t judge) because I feel an urge too. Haven’t gone that far yet and yes I know I’ll need skin graphs if I do it. (Not only dating I also have a couple bad phobias too and yes I have been seeing a therapist).

Anyway bottom line is that I wanted to ask if it was normal for someone my age in my position (never having a girlfriend once and really wanting one) to be so girl crazy where all he ever thinks of is wrapping a girl in his arms, will do absolutely anything for one and gets so depressed thinking of others having it especially those who don’t deserve it. Ex. Those who just want sex.

Quickly before I describe modern dating I am just gonna say that traditional dating was killed by Feminism. The question is if girls benefitted from this or not. It seems only some girls did.

So, modern dating is a joke. It's not dating. It's pretty much centred around casual sex. Yes, casual sex is now how we get our relationships. Now first of all no one "dates" anymore, not in present day America. Instead, people just fuck. Literally. Apps like Tinder are proof of this. Most young people are on these and just browse these apps, looking for attractive people and only wanting one thing with them. So pretty much women initiate these hookups. The guy goes to her place, they put on some music, fuck and then he leaves. Is this how shallow people have become? After that they may keep chatting and something might develop but it rarely does. This is modern dating. This also includes bar hookups. Anyways, that's how pathetic "dating" is. No one "dates". They fuck for months until on of them catches feelings and wants more. Young people have tons of sex partners, countless. A 20 something American woman is the most sexual person on the planet and has slept with more people than anyone else. Girls literally fuck different guys all the time that they meet on these apps and stuff, of course this is all because Feminsim thought them too.

But like I love sex, and hooking up is great - but not when it replaces dating, People have always hooked up but it has never been as shallow and pathetic as Tinder hookups these days. So as we all have to endure it, I wanna know how you feel about it. I assume most girls are happy with it, considering how sexually active women are and how much they hookup, they also are a huge portion of these apps. It's a sad truth that girls no longer want love and instead want random guys they've never met to just come fuck them. It's sad that dating is dead but I guess I have made the most of it. It is good to fuck lots of girls I must admit.